Is it a bad thing if you haven’t had a lot of partners?

[Laprincessa313]

I’ve always felt insecure about this. What if I’m not good because Im not very experienced or what if he doesn’t like this or that? Relationship wise is it a good or bad thing

[Anonymous]

While society today’s tells women that sleeping around is good, that they’re owning their sexuality, it really isn’t. Yes a lot of us men want to have sex w a lot of women. But when it comes to a girl we want to settle down w we usually prefer a girl who has little to no body counts. If he’s looking for a one night stand he may care if you have no experience, but for a partner it’s almost preferred she doesn’t. Most men won’t say this because they will get a lot of women hating on them. Or maybe they don’t have that many options so they have no real choice but to take her as she is, even if that means she has numerous bodies.

[Mr_twoface]

No, it is not inherently bad if you haven't had a lot of romantic or sexual partners. The number of partners a person has had is a personal choice and can vary widely among individuals. Some doesn't care about the body count and others do. What matters most is that you make choices that align with your values, comfort level, and desires, and engage in relationships that are consensual, respectful, and emotionally fulfilling for you. There is no universal "right" or "wrong" number of partners, and what matters most is your own well-being and happiness.

[Ninanina2230]

No, of course it's not a bad thing! You have nothing to feel insecure about. I think everyone gets in their head about whether they are good or bad in bed. You just need to learn what they like that's all

[Laprincessa313]

Thank you! I always think like well he slept with these type of girls and there’s me whose only slept w a few people. They’re probably better. I don't know.. I do live in my head a lot I guess

[MemeSupreme]

how did i just like your question accidentally twice lmfao

ANYWAY i feel like after your 2nd or 3rd you've experienced enough to know how it goes. how many have you had?

[Laprincessa313]

Less than 5. All my relationships have been long term 5+ I don’t even know what it feels like to be single lol so I always think the girls he was with before me we’re probably better

[MemeSupreme]

it's understandable why you feel that way like it's kinda normal. everyone feels inadequate whether they been in a lot of short or long term ones

i feel like all your one's being long term tho gives you an advantage lol like you can deal with relationship BS better bc long term is no joke

[rebeliouse]

@MemeSupreme

whats your body count?

[Avicenna]

Well, there will probably be a range of opinions on this, but I think people generally don't think it's bad and many will say it's good. And it's age-dependent as well. A woman my age who has had few partners and has never been in a long-term relationship, well, I'd want to look at why.

[Avicenna]

But I think you'll find it is an advantage for you rather than a disadvantage. The only real disadvantage is for someone who's your age or older and has never had a relationship at all.

[Anonymous]

As far as I'm concerned 'only slept w a few people.' still equals 'a lot of partners'

This corrupt society has brain washed almost everyone into thinking high body counts serve any purpose. But in the end all they do is prevent / reduce the chances of pair bonding, create excess baggage, soul ties, and undermine the potential for a sacred connection. But when you judge a situation compared to another that follows society, then you won't see this. I know a woman that only realised this when she reached her 50's and she is still recovering. Promiscuity, high body counts and casual sex is promoted by society but it serves zero purpose. Ask yourself when the last time anything promoted by society truly benefited you.

This is just my opinion, most will disagree I'm sure.

[Laprincessa313]

Sleeping with under 5 is a lot of partners? But I do understand about the bonding. It’s a soul bond with everyone you sleep with. They were all long term relationships except one. A lot of men sleep with a lot of women. My current has slept with strippers😳 So it kind of makes me feel insecure because I feel like I can’t do the things they have done and maybe I don’t please him as much. I don't know.. just my opinion and situation

[NathanDavis]

I've had four girlfriends before...

and I have never felt like I lack experience in relationships, it is actually the opposite, I do think that I know enough about how to get to know someone new and bond, connect, also find out all there is about them, yes

[Fireguy17]

It's never to late to learn, especially with the right person.
Ask him what he likes, you might just enjoy it too.
Doing the same old thing with the same exact results can get a little boring.
Figure out what you might be interested in doing, do some research and homework, if you can think of it I'm sure there is a porn video that shows it.

[Paris13]

It Is Always Good To Date or Find a Mate, Many, Actually, Before Finding The Right One, hun, Or Risk Feeling "What Am I Missing Out On?" Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xxoo

[DarkWinterNights]

Men are largely not going to shame or judge you for not “being experienced”. Statistically most men are not experienced either, so if anything they would likely feel better if you weren’t that experienced.

[marshall990]

In my opinion, it doesn't matters. Lead your life the way to want, shape it the way you want. Your life is like sand, it's a free particle initially, but as you start to add water (experience) in it and shape it slowly and perfectly it will look like a beautiful sand castle, which everyone will praise about.

[aceleon]

get rid of the idea that experience worths a shit in bed, especially if you are a girl.

inexperienced girls are the best anyone else who says otherwise is either a cuck or a feminist.

[DextroShade]

It is a very good thing for a woman not to have a high body count, especiallywhen it comes to relationships. Taking too many dicks destroys your ability to pair-bond with a man. Stop listening to the stupid feminist whores telling you otherwise; don't let them drag you into spinsterdom with them.

[Dr_CEI]

Having a low number of partners is nothing to worry about. I haven't had many but learnt everything I needed with my wife. Every partner is different and you should always tell each other what you like and do it

[bolverk]

No, its not a bad thing if you have not had a lot of partners, it shows that you have been discriminating in who you've dated, especially when accepted as the norm to have had 10+ partners.

[Miristheiss]

Good thing.

Most studies show more sexual partners weakens the chances of bonding with your mate is closely and the rates of divorce will go up.

[Wise4myage]

Experience comes with practice so don’t worry too much about the past and focus on the present.

[Sonorous]

Tbh I'd rather be with a girl who hasn't had a lot of partners vs one that has. She'd have less people to compare me to. Which might make for a smoother relationship.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, its a bad thing if you HAVE had a lot of partners.

You can't get "experience" that way, people are different, your experience with one guy isn't going to help you with the next one.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Optimally, the highest value people in the dating world are hot/cute virgins.

[LazerBean]

No, less partners almost always is better for anyone.

[Notherndude84]

The number of people you’ve had sex with is your personal business.
If you’ve been generous with sex that’s okay
If you’re not comfortable being generous that’s okay too.
It’s your body and it’s your choice to have sex or not!

[Anonymous]

I feel like it’s the point of my life when I should have my 2nd partner, as I am finally over my 1st one.

I think it’s not good I haven’t experienced more.

[rosemilk]

how is that a bad thing? you're okay. baggage can be a turn off.

[Berethor]

Hos are not wife material, and girls tend to be passive anyway, don't need experience.

[nawtee_me]

It is a good thing if you ask me. The way I see it is that since I have had a lot of partners because I like sex then if you have had a lot of partners then you must like sex too. We all have a pst so the number means nothing to me.

[Billlewis]

For women, I would say yes. For men, the opposite.

[Carguy92]

No actually it's a good thing and much prefered. Means you want a connection with the other person first.

[OtterMan68]

not at all. It could mean you are selective and have high standards.

[Slapmynuts]

It not bad or good. I call it it is what it is! No stress and no worries! You are fine! Just always be yourself and everything will work out!😁

[Anonymous]

Very good thing, as you will be able to bond better with the next one.

[Minahh]

It's a good thing don't get fooled by the hookup culture

[Crankor]

Having higher body counts doesn't make your relationships last longer

[Anonymous]

It's different for men, sleeping with more women makes you more attractive to women. I never had a girlfriend and woman ghost after hearing this (happened last three times).

[rebeliouse]

well u could always increase your headcount :D

r u vanilla or filthy dirty kinky?

[serious]

No, it is not a bad thing at all.

[WhyohWhy69]

Obsessing over it is.

[Anonymous]

No, it's a good thing.

[sheikalana]

It’s actually a good thing.

[Rickyboy100]

No. It isn't Bad. I also had not many Partners

[LiamJHayden]

No, just probably a bit inexperienced.

[Anonymous]

Nope. But the reverse is.

[riverrat3]

Not good or bad, just is

[Roudyrebel8]

Not at all

[LavLavLuv]

Nope

[KittygosMeoWW]

No, it’s not

[Anonymous]

In the U. S. it is.