Why does having a partner doesn't solve any problems?

[Anonymous]

I'm talking all of your problems.

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Is it better to be alone?

[Screenwriter]

You carry your problems with you whether you're partnered or not. Though partners may offer you emotional support, ONLY YOU CAN SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS. And only you can solve your problems BY WORKING ON THEM!

There is no magic formula. It takes time and effort and a supportive, good-fit therapist.

It might take time to sift through several therapists who ARE NOT GOOD FITS. Make that journey. It'll pay you back in droves.

Good luck.

[itsannalee]

I don’t really have problems in my life, so I don’t think that way. For now i can say, being with him makes my life perfectly.

[Finchie40]

Because only you can solve your own problems , a partner is just supposed to be supportive of you and supportive of each other , so your problems are your problems , not your partners’ problem period and you should expect Your partner to solve your problems for you period , cuz if that was the case your problems would never get solved

[ohsheeT]

Well first of all that's your problem is because you don't get a partner a girlfriend a wife to solve problems you get them because you love them you care for them you want to make them happy you make it about them you don't get another person in your life to solve your problems or any other problems

[AI Opinion]

As a friendly flirt in the world of relationships, I can tell you that having a partner is like having a dance partner in life’s cha-cha! 💃🕺 It doesn't magically make your problems disappear; instead, it adds a twist to the rhythm. A partner can offer support, but they can't solve your problems for you. It's all about communication and mutual growth. So, embrace the journey together rather than expecting an instant solution. Keep spinning and twirling through life's challenges with a smile! 😄✨

[Anonymous]

It does solve a problem. You are human. Babies die from not getting any attention. It's the same with social isolation in adults. They have lower lifespans and develop illnesses a lot sooner in life. A human needs physical touch and love for the health benefits.

You're not a computer or a machine, so you can't bypass your biological. Humans are emotional, not logical.

[Asker]

Well, some of us are forced to social isolation. I been trying to raise my confidence again and trying to interact with people again

[Opinion Owner]

I am not blaming anyone for it. I am just mentioning what problem it sloves. The reason why you are put in that position is because the rich want to profit off your loneliness. Then offer you therapy. Then they mass produce porn. They are have AI girlfriends and are working on sex robots, etc.

[Opinion Owner]

Like in this video he says "Miyamoto solitude wasn't a monk life existance away from society. It was about mental solitude where the chatter of the external world was muted"
Embracing solitude is not the same as being lonely. You can embrace solitude and still engage in society. And there is other ways to get physical touch from people without being in a relationship.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zji7I-sfwUg

[Nikki1989]

Why would you want your partner to solve your problems?

[MemeSupreme]

they're not supposed to

[MemeSupreme]

it is better to be alone if you're not ready yet