Why some people are not able to have a partner?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

They can’t find their ideal person and also some people set some scary specific standards.
I know a friend (men) who is 38 very soon to be 39 and he is still a virgin and never dated ever. The reason is because he wants to find a women who’s also a virgin. It’s like strange because ok I get it he is a virgin and he wants a virgin woman fair enough right ! But he is losing chances on a good women passing by because they are non virgin that doesn’t mean they are bad maybe they ended up thinking this men loves them but he didn’t he cheated on her etc etc it can be many reasons why and there is a limit too. You can’t possible be 38 years old men still waiting for a virgin unless you go to specific rural countries even there I doubt it it’s true they are women virgin at 35..+
Unless you are very very very lucky but I think it’s very hard for a men who’s 38 wanting a women on their 30s who’s a virgin in like California !
To me my friend is for sure losing good women out there who are non virgins due to many circumstances that’s a very dumb move. He will be 40 soon and at 40 even if you ate rich etc women who are 20 s won’t even look at you you are a creep to them by that age let’s be real. Even an early 30s wants close to her age. So by 40 he can’t really find a virgin women whos 40 .. lucky if she has a kid not 2 that’s the most he can get


So yeah we need standards but don’t set stupid standard to your life don't be an idiot. Life is short
Give a great men or women a chance if they are amazing to your eyes don’t let an hymen fool you

[jennifer_bloom]

One reason is jealousy and too controlling and another is reckless or overly selfish. Appearance is rarely a factor because ugly people can date ugly people or poor people.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't know. It can be a variety of factors. A lot could stem from the people you meet. Many self obsessed, jealous, controlling, reckless and other bad negative trait bearing people still find partners.

[Guy13]

Sometimes people are destined to be single. It probably will happen for you.

[Guy13]

Hang in there and someone will come around. What about real people in real time. www.meetup.com

[Ms_Facesitter]

No luck, the new partner can't surpass the former or they have red flags without even knowing they have them.

[sadgirl0210]

Because some people cheat and they r scared to be in a relationship it can do a lot with there past and what they been through as well

[krystek_pl]

some people can't find the right person to have, and some people like the life of a loner 😊