If you friendzoned someone before, why?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Well a lot of these things are issues that they wouldn’t be friend-zoned…. Because people who did certain things wouldn’t be my friends.

Simple fact is the matter is it could be any of those reasons. I simply just am not romantically and/or sexually attracted to her. Obviously if she’s friend zoned there is something I like about her but see her as a friend. It’s not a insult. Not everyone is meant to be…

If someone was disgusting to me and I disliked them as a human being. They wouldn’t be friend zoned. Because frankly they wouldn’t even be my friend. Attraction is normal… I will be respectful if you’re respectful. It’s not embarrassing to like someone that doesn’t see you that way. It is embarrassing to act entitled and obsessed.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I voted messed with one of my friends, but I could've voted for almost anything. The whole messed with one of my friends situation hasn't happened since I was in my early 20's, and from what I remember... the drama it could cause in my friend circle just made the juice not worth the squeeze. But same goes for any of the other things I could've voted for... if I become aware that the juice just isn't worth the squeeze, I don't care if she wants to fuck like crazy and she's infatuated with me, she's just not worth it for whatever reason.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I gotta tell ya. I would never "friendzone" anyone who had any of the listed issues. Red flags, vibe and energy mismatch, bad reputation, messed with a friend, too immature, hygiene, are all reasons I could never be friends with a person.

Not good looking wouldn't cancel out a friendship or even a potential relationship if all the rest of the list you cited plus a few other categories were positive.

You telling me you want a stinky, immature, messy person with a bad reputation as a friend? Come on!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My friend broke up with this guy and just decided that we would make a good match. I'd never met him before and was kind of ambushed on a date I didn't know was a date. I was 100% not attracted to him at all and it just felt super weird knowing my friend had already dated him AND decided that he was not for her, so when I found out her whole plot, I told him, he was cool, but I didn't want to date him. We're still friends till this day. Everyone has moved on to other people they do like.

FreyaRed · Answer

In all cases people thought I friend zoned someone there was never more than a friend zone before. They just played too much with their imagination and they saw things which didn't exist. Then as I was obliged to draw fat red line they got upset and friendship was never enough for them.
Sometimes I think I must be a terrible friend.

aaron13547 · Answer

the way you like a friend isn't the way you love someone... chemistry is why. and im not taking about what we learned in school lol. All your options are reasons to not like someone, not to friend zone them. You don't friendzone someone you don't like to make them go away. You tell them you don't like them...

HighValue · Answer

The reasons I have is:

1. We weren't compatible for a long term romantic relationship, but still had 1 or 2 things in common to do together as friends.

2. Not attractive enough to me.

3. This one planned to get sleeve tattoos on her limbs and ruin her attractiveness.

4. Too old to have healthy offspring.

5. Was still in contact with an ex and step kids.

Those are the different ones I can remember right now.

Katebfun · Answer

None of the above options. At least not at this stage of life 🤣😆

Nowadays, I prefer to be friends first with a man. Because it takes the pressure off and we could both be our authentic selves. Women have more at stake so getting to know a man and his intentions is important also its best to have a foundation of friendship 1st.

Anonymous · Answer

Because of the lack of attraction (not my type of girl) - Not good looking. I'm very visual.

I also noticed some red flags and energy mismatch.

I don't care about "bad reputation", because people tend to say bad things about someone with no valid reason.

Immature - Not necessarily a problem.

Messed with one of my friends - Maybe my friend exaggerated...

Hygiene - I wouldn't know, never really noticed that.

jshm2 · Answer

Many women. From being too poor, to being too eager. They were good friends and people, hence keeping them in a relationship. But just not good enough to be sexual partners with.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh I've had a few who tried because they were on a powertrip and flat out admitted they were that's when i gave them the double middle finger and told them i was going to whip out my dick and dick slap the fuck out of them and then told them i would ram my 8+" cock down their throats. They got so offended they had their boyfriends try to fight their battles and i told them the same thing. Needless to say it humbled the fuck out of them

aceleon · Answer

i wasn't attracted to them. either because they were not the type of girl i was interested or they were not even a girl to begin with.

Tereza07 · Answer

Vibe mismatch ussually. But also becouse I just wasn't attracted... And height is often a problem too since im tall

Zionne · Answer

Usually it’s because the romantic spark wasn’t there, even if the person was kind and likable. Sometimes it’s also timing, I valued the friendship but wasn’t ready or didn’t see them in that way.

genericname85 · Answer

it was almost exclusively lack of attractiveness or just obesity. just once it was cause she was manipulative and gaslighting and that creeped me out.

Staximus · Answer

Yeah, my friend's ex-girlfriend who is a control freak. She wanted to have my children, but I didn't know if it was because she thought I was a great guy or if it was for revenge against my friend. She's loaded, I could have been set for life.

Mikeyyy999 · Answer

As shallow as it sounds, if you're not physically attracted to someone, you're not physically attracted to someone.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Total vibe mismatch usually.. but sometimes it's just cuz they are ugly lol

Nikki1989 · Answer

There are  NO  zones.

blackeagle007 · Answer

No.. to me it would just be awkward to be friends with someone you’ve gone out with. I get that if you’re not into them. I usually just say, look I feel that we don’t click. Was nice meeting you though

Unycorn · Answer

It just wasn't right. Friendship is also very precious and often lasts much longer.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

I voted A, I won't say I'm sorry not sorry  And I voted A

Eddaisy · Answer

It could be all of them, but I chose the emotion and energy insomnia option

MJVillarama · Answer

Great person, just no spark. Felt more like vibing with a sibling than a date.

qwerty2469 · Answer

Because they were my best friend and they were a slut.

Flower7 · Answer

Lack of a connection.

beenherebefore · Answer

Mostly because I wasn't attracted to them.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No romantic chemistry

MemeSupreme · Answer

no romantic chemistry

Agape93 · Answer

Because I don't want them.

RavVid · Answer

Didn't want to fuck them.

Anonymous · Answer

Just not attracted to them.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Just not interested.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

We had different morals

Tinselbread · Answer

They had bad ideas about how the world should be.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I don't have that luxury

Anonymous · Answer

Lol I don’t have friends for all these reasons.

bunniesrcute · Answer

didn't like them

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