Why are boys more interested in a girl physically than emotionally? I seen some guys not emotionally as invested as a girl in relationships?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because honestly no one really knows someone’s personality until they get to meet them. So men tend to look at looks first. Doesn’t mean we’re wrong. But women seem to think men are wrong for looking at looks first. If that’s so then why is it that pretty much all heterosexual men are the same way. Maybe cause we’re created like this. Personality usually only matters after her looks, but even then if she’s got a bad personality her looks won’t matter. Now in other cases where he’s interested in just her looks after he’s gotten o know her, he’s just looking to smash. A lot of women seem to mistake attention, especially social media for men who want to date them. In reality a lot of those men just want to smash them.

[Anonymous]

Because most women are not attracted to the men who would be interested in being emotionally invested in her. No disrespect, but your gender largely only know how to flirt with men. Which men are almost always going to take sexually. Getting a guy to react to you emotionally means you have to be connected to him emotionally as well. And that takes EFFORT! Effort most women do not want to put in. And it still only works if you pick a guy capable of it. Which most women DO NOT. It's the equivalent of a guy who tries to find a stripper with a heart of gold.😆 they don't exist.

[Anonymous]

We can be invested emotionally in a girl, but it seems like it is more rare. I've only been emotionally attracted to one girl, but my interest started out from her physical appearance.

[Anonymous]

because they don't see anything long-term with her and only as a pump and dump

sure some men would commit in the short-term but deep down it's no hymen no diamond

[Anonymous]

Women typically need to have an emotional connection before their ready to have sex.

Men typically develop an emotional connection with a woman after having sex with her.

[Pohjolan]

Physical attraction is also a emotion you know. Its not like guys are rating them based on a chart.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because it starts with physical attraction. The emotional will increase as time goes on.