I’m bored with life and my relationship?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has two boys. I don’t mind including them wherever we go but when I mention I want to go hiking he says no that he doesn’t want to go. I ask why he just says he doesn’t want to. I try to be understanding because he is tired from work but like how many times do I have to hear no. I’m starting to feel very frustrated, every weekend is boring for me. I need adventures and to be outdoors, his boys like it too but I guess it’s hard having kids too. Maybe I am just venting here because I don’t want to make him feel bad

[ohsheeT]

Your not venting. Your growing your trying to become who you are meant to be

So do it get the boys get them eat a canteen that they can put water in a little day. Pack, put some food in it and go for a hike. It'll be a good experience, it'll be a time to bond to teach. Get exercise fresh air to your brain. Breathe in through your nose, exhale through your nose. That way , you're getting pure oxygen to feed your organs and your brain , your heart

When you get back home, the boys will tell their dad about their experience and everybody had fun. So the next time you go , maybe you might want to go with you if he doesn't it's okay , go anyway

Because somewhere down the road he's going to say. OK, I'll go, that's what he needs He just doesn't know it yet. Because after he does.
At once, it will kind of bring him back to life that tiredness will go away because of the fresh air because of the experience. So hope take matters into your own hand and just do it
Life is short. You have to experience everything you possibly can it's. It's the meaning of linew adventures move everything. You don't just stop growing or living because somebody else doesn't want to do it. You need to be the leader,,, do it

[RedInnocent69]

Go on your own, with other friends, or take the boys. He’ll get the picture and catch on, or you’ll drift apart, and that’s okay too. Be your own person. I get being tiered from work, but you need to be your own person

[Unap0logetic_]

To be honest, I would sit and talk to him. Be very honest and ask him to open and receptive to your feelings. Sometimes things are great in the beginning but then you grow as a person and you realize that there’s so much more to life. Tomorrow isn’t promised, always do what makes you happy.

[AvaRay]

A relationship that consistently silences your joy isn’t love, it’s compromise masquerading as patience..

Frustration isn’t weakness but it’s a signal that your spirit deserves alignment, not apology..

[trumpetplayerforlife]

You either need to talk to him and tell him how you feel or leave if your not happy with it don't want to keep dating someone who doesn't want to at least try your interest and do some stuff you like

[slatyb]

No, you should end this and date someone who shares your interests, or at least some of them.

[Ironco]

Maybe he just hates hiking, find something else to do. Go motorcycling, 4 wheeling, fish, etc

[zombiewoof]

Take the boys

[Slave_submissive]

I dont know