If someone likes to play in the grey area when it comes to feelings, what would u do.. 🤔?

[Anonymous]

Play along? Keep waiting? Or cut that person off? 🤨

If that were me, I’d cut them off without a second thought, life’s too short for indecision, games, or half hearted men.. ❌👋🏻

My time, my energy, my heart too precious to waste..

I don’t negotiate with mediocrity, I don’t settle n I don’t play at that level.. 🤭

Want to be with me? Then step up.. Match my energy, my standards, my vision..

Otherwise, step aside n make room for someone strong enough, real enough, worthy enough.. 💋

Think I’m too complicated or my standards are too high?

That’s not a flaw, that’s my level n not everyone is built to walk beside me.. ✨

Yes, there are men out there willing to commit… 😎🥂

But only a rare few r qualified to stand here, on my side, at my level..

The rest? Thank you, next.. 🔥

[Anonymous]

It would probably depend if they were actually playing. Some people give people reservations. I've been played by women before. And I have no problem cutting them loose. But I'd first like to be certain that is IN FACT her that is doing the playing and not me giving her reservations by some t thing I've said or done.

[Asker]

I appreciate your perspective sir..

That’s exactly why clarity n honesty matter..

I don’t play games, n I expect the same from anyone who walks beside me..

I operate with full transparency n high standards, n I move all in or all out..

That’s simply how I navigate life.. 😊🙏🏻

[RHK36]

I eventually put them in a permanent friend zone which they don't know until way later. They gonna games, cool me too. If I don't get along at all I'll just cut them off completely.

[Ironco]

Well, it might be a lonely life if you keep that additude. There is such a thing as give and take. Not just it's my way or go fuck yourself additude.

[Asker]

Give n take works both ways n I don’t compromise my standards for half hearted men.. 🥂😊

[Ironco]

That's reasonable and understandable, but your question comes off a a woman pissed off and against men.

[Asker]

With all due respect sir,

I understand how it might come across, but this isn’t about being against anyone..

It’s about knowing my worth, my standards, n not settling for less..

Life’s too short for anything less than what I deserve.. 😊🙏🏻

[Ironco]

This is true, I'm just saying the way you presented the question was very standoffish...
But you do you...

[Asker]

I understand n appreciate your perspective, sir..

That said, I’m just being honest about my standards n I don’t play games or compromise my worth..

I share my truth clearly, n that’s simply how I operate.. 😊

[Ironco]

I'm not going to disagree with you, you keep doing what you want. It just struck me as an angry additude.

[Asker]

I hear u n appreciate your perspective sir..

I’m not angry, I’m simply unapologetic about my standards.. 😊

[Ironco]

I hear you...
And you don't have to keep calling me "sir", makes me feel old...😜🤪

[Asker]

Haha noted.. 😊 I m really sorry, I didn’t mean to make u feel old.. 🥺

I called u ‘sir’ cause u r older n it’s my way of showing respect..

But if u don’t mind being called by your name, that’s fine too, maybe u can spill it? ☺️

[WhitneySnow]

In general I’m inclined to agree with you

[roy_ricky09]

That's bad.

This is not how it works..

[Asker]

That's bad?

Well, maybe for some, but this is how I operate..

My way, not anyone else's..

I know what I want in my life n I’m not here to compromise, lower my standards, or just be accepted n loved by someone..

I know where I stand, the value I carry within me, my capacity, n my capabilities in life..

I don’t need jokes, half hearted men, or games.. 😊

[roy_ricky09]

Ava, you are confusing 2 different things here. It's just the frustration talking, not you.

[Asker]

U don’t know me as a person, Roy..

Frustrated? That’s not my style, I don’t play at that level, sorry..

I get that frustration is natural, but the point remains that I know my worth n my standards, n I won’t compromise them for anyone..

I’m just sharing my standards, n honestly, I put this question here cause it made me wonder if u guys hv other opinion than mine..

Simple as that.. 😌

[roy_ricky09]

Fair enough. I already knew your response.
That mindset is great for career growth, business etc...
But personal relationships is completely different thing. Like I said before, you are confusing 2 different things here.

[Asker]

I never get confused, Roy..

I know exactly what I want n what I need to do in my life, n I expect the same clarity from others..

I’m a risk taker, but I’m not reckless, everything I do is under control, n outcomes r always within my prediction..

U know this well when it comes to business..

I handle things strategically n understand how operations work..

The same mentality applies to everything else..

I’m all in or all out, I move at a certain pace n value, n I expect anyone who walks with me to match that.. 😏

[roy_ricky09]

I don't know why, but at this moment, you are not in a state to understand the difference. It's alright, happens. Chill... There's nothing wrong

[Asker]

I hear u, n I respect your perspective, Roy..

We may see things differently, but that’s okay , it’s good to understand other points of view as well..

I’m not rigid, I just know my standards n what I want, n I operate from clarity n integrity..

That’s simply how I navigate all areas of my life..