I fear my boyfriend ghosted me, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

Okay so recently my long distance boyfriend hasn't been answering any of my texts or calls on any plat form, I have sent him a few messages that I will have a pic of but I am afraid he has ghosted me. Men (or women) I need to know if this is me being ghosted or maybe he just lost his phone, etc...

The last thing I sent him wasn't anything bad, just a Picture of one of my outfits and him saying nice and then gn, I've been worried, I've been ghosted before but in a less serious middle school relationship. Any thoughts / opinions?

[AvaRay]

When someone suddenly disappears, it’s easy to spiral replaying every detail, wondering what u did wrong..

But silence speaks, n sometimes no closure is closure..

If he truly cared, he wouldn’t vanish without a word..

A man who values u will communicate, not confuse u.

You deserve clarity, not anxiety..

So don’t chase what’s hiding from u..

Take the silence as a revelation, not a rejection..

Because real connection doesn’t need to disappear to prove its worth,
n the right person won’t make u beg for basic respect..

[Zionne]

Give him a little space, but don’t sit in uncertainty, reach out with a clear, calm message asking where things stand. Pay attention to his response, because how he communicates now will tell you whether it’s a misunderstanding or a sign to move on.

[ohsheeT]

What type of outfit.
Tbh don't know either one of you so its hard to tell. I wouldn't send him any more messages wait for him to reply.. when I work I try to keep my phone in my vehicle, because If I don't I'm known to forget about it and next thing I know it's broken I mean I've gone through 3 phones in a month before. So it could be just about anything

But if he did ghost you. It's hard to do because I'm sure you would want to know way but sometimes it's better to just let it go

[Zack-Bann]

No such thing as an LDR
it’s just a make believe text buddy


Best find someone you can be with IRL


He probably already did

[RxR0954]

Oh well, you just got dumped. If he comes back with ANY excuses at all he’s bullshiting. This looks way too familiar

[Staximus]

When is the last time you saw this guy in person?

[Asker]

About 4 or 5 months from now.

[Staximus]

So you're over here worrying about a guy you haven't seen for 5 months? How many times have you actually seen this guy in real life? Is he actually your boyfriend or some just some guy you talk to on the computer?

[Asker]

I met him in college, but then he moved back with his parents after his mom got sick. Yes we did get together when I saw him in IRL, and I saw him for maybe 6 months straight before he left.

[qwerty2469]

Frankenstein his ass. Just show up in his family's estate and trash it.

[BarryLiverstone]

When you called him what did he say?

[Asker]

He hasn't answered them, that's the thing.

[BarryLiverstone]

If he hasn’t answered your phone calls then all you can do is wait. No need to keep reaching out.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you think he’s been hurt seriously have you seen any friends post about it? Or called them?

[Asker]

I haven't seen any posts or gotten calls / texts about any injuries, in my opinion I think I accidentally did something to him, I will definitely call his friends who I know about it though.

[BarryLiverstone]

Good luck. How long has he been your boyfriend?

[Asker]

Almost a year, I met him in college but he moved back with his parents a few states away after his mom got sick so he took a flight there and now I haven't seen him in about 4-5 months.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s not good unfortunately. First sorry to hear his mom got sick, did she recover? Next it sounds like he’s not willing to move close to where you are

[Anonymous]

LDRs never work.

[slatyb]

Date someone local.

[In_Trance]

Move on