He is bad at communicating. He will change something up then won’t say it until last minute and lately he has been a lot more snappy towards me because of stress due to work. Anyways, he said if it was cool If we went to his friend’s house and I said okay. If I’m being real, his friend literally had a house like those hoarder houses! It was FILTHY. Trash everywhere, appliances in my the bathtub, cats scattered everywhere and I just didn’t feel comfortable at all. On top of that, my boyfriend kept leaving me in the house by myself with his friend’s girlfriend. I told my boyfriend “why do you keep leaving me by myself m?” And he said “sorry” but he said it in a way that wasn’t really sincere.
My boyfriend called my name to come over and he says “do you wanna go home?” Slurring his words because he was stupid drunk. When he gets around his friends, he ALWAYS gets carried away with the drinking and he acts obnoxiously. He wanted more to drink and his friend was gonna give him another beer and I told him no.
So at this point, I’m pretty pissed because one, I told my boyfriend to not to get carried away and he still did it anyways so now because he decided to get so drunk I have to wait for him to sober up. We left the friend’s house at 5am.
Next day I tell my boyfriend if we can go to this restaurant that I like but he gives me a lame excuse and says, “I don’t feel like driving that far.” But he said he would go back to his friend’s house that lives the same exact distance from the restaurant