Do you think men and women are being made to hate each other?

[Anonymous]

I mean with the rise of the smart phone , all this social media and technology, it’s turned everyone into egomaniacs. Every girl thinks she deserves a giga Chad, and guys just want the companionship of a girl they find cute or hot, which do attract many guys. So guys have no opportunities, while women have countless. Plus with the rise of feminism, women don’t need no man, so they think they can go for the most wealthy of wealthy men because that’s now the new standard of “dating up” while more and more typical jobs for men are being replaced by automation. The jobs are more scarce, women are competing for more office jobs, and it’s like man…. You think about all this stuff happening, and we’re freaking cooked bro.

Most attractive young women are spoiled brats, you got a bunch of honest to goodness good natured dudes out here getting the short end of the stick in EVERY FACET of life… and they just want someone to build themselves up with, build a life and connections together and all these girls are waiting at the finish line for the 1 in a million CEO of some work company that has a mega mansion and a yacht in Greece that he can fly to on his private plane, all because their Facebook algorithm showed them something like this 8 times before and they thought “why not me?” because another man with “status” the captain of the state university football team, liked their new photo, because they met at some degenerate party 3 weeks ago.

Most guys are not that. We’re too busy trying to figure out how to just get by anymore, and then because you’re not some photogenic status symbol type of guy, the amount of cold shoulders and disrespect you do get from women if you try to put yourself out there man, it just isn’t even worth it. Dating, or attempting to, is an absolute clown show anymore.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

The problem with your statement here is that you believe what you're saying.

You blame women for the failure of some men. There are still plenty of men who are finding love out there. The ones that aren't are not either making the necessary changes to better themselves and just expect a woman to be delivered to them like some sort of Christmas present or are genuinely repulsive enough not to attract one. You believe that men are even owed a relationship with a woman. They aren't.

I do believe there is a rift being caused between races and possibly the sexes going on right now, but blaming feminism is a cop out for the failures of some men. Again, you place men as the victims instead of celebrating women gaining more independence for themselves in life.

What a victim mentality you have going on there.

[Asker]

Oh I’m not a victim. I have been on my grind for a while, and it’s going well for me. But do women seem to notice or care? No. I’m doing my part, but are women? Because as I mentioned in another comment below, it only seems women want to continue to party into their 40’s now. 🤷‍♂️

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

And that's their right if they choose to do it. They aren't required to get married just to survive in this country and many others where women are free from religious oppression. If they dont want to get married or have kids, then fine!

[Asker]

Sure it’s their right. But they shouldn’t come crying when they realized their ship has sailed YEARS ago , when they finally want to settle down.

It leaves me to question, in a country where women are the freest in the world, where this still happens a lot, what I am describing… what are they running from? What are they truly running from?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

We aren't running from anything. We are exploring our freedoms and enjoying our lives.

As for your statement about us wanting to settle down, that's also our right and no, that ship hasn't sailed. There are plenty of men who will want to date us.

Stop generalizing.

[Asker]

Oh I think you are. You’re running from serious relationships and commitment and the morality it requires to be with one person and not string along countless others on a moments notice. But that’s just my opinion.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You're opinion would be wrong, but you're entitled to it.

[Asker]

You women just have to want it bad enough. Simple as that. And not just say it, but actually be about it. Because men are trying.

You see and hear all this stuff out there from young women today, “I don’t care what a man thinks” and it’s like well, maybe you should. Like you wonder why you still can’t lock a dude down (if that’s your intent) and you’re saying stuff like that… I wonder why. 🤷‍♂️

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Men are trying? Says who? The ones who cry the loudest are the ones who dont do a thing to improve themselves and just expect a woman to throw herself at him as if he were a prize to be won.

And no, we shouldn't really care what a man thinks when it comes to ourselves because we need to be true to ourselves just like men like to do. If you don't like that from a woman, then find a different one. There is plenty of variety out there.

[Asker]

If that’s what you think, ok, I got nothing left here then. 🤷‍♂️

[Nikki1989]

That is precisely what some bitter men want. You can see it here every single day. They figure I am miserable, so I want everyone else to be miserable as well.

You sound just as bitter, twisted, and insecure as the rest of them on here. Thankfully, not all men have these issues.

[Asker]

It’s not bitterness if what I’m saying is true… and it is.

[Anonymous]

Like you said, guys just want the superficially hot cute girls now. Guys who want that are just as guilty as girls who want rich hot guys (and neither are representative of everyone in their gender).

[mysteriousNicholas]

*Hot Women. And nah, I'm getting past it now at 30+ to still be trying to date 20s women. I've instead moving slowly into retirement phase sloth 🦥😄📺📺🦥

[Asker]

Here’s the problem. There are a lot of pretty girls out there. Dime per dozen. A wealthy and attractive younger man is rare. Women only have a few years of peak fertility while it takes men years to achieve a place in society that women would deem him “successful” which they require more than ever. What happened to the days of young people getting together and building a life together? Instead all women seem to want to do is party into their 40’s. Meanwhile a lot of reasonably attractive men are on their grind, and women act like they aren’t shit. These men are probably LEAGUES beyond these women in personal development and character. Do you see what I’m saying?

[Opinion Owner]

No. Not all women want a rich guy. We just want a reasonably attractive guy who either has a job or is in school with a plan for his future.

[Asker]

But even if that’s true, there’s countless of these guys, so you have to settle down with one. And what are the chances any girl settles with you, when you’re just one, run of the mill guy? She’s got 30 others in her DM’s that she’s known longer than you.

[Opinion Owner]

There are a lot of girls out there looking for a guy to settle down with. Trouble is most of the guys don’t want to settle down.

[Asker]

So when you’re the guy that literally just wants to be the guy for ANY girl he goes out of his way for and finds attractive, with full intention to commit, and it never happens… you see how one might find a lot of frustration in that?

[Anonymous]

I see your question garnered the attention of GAG's most bitter middle aged misandrist. You must be doing something right.

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s bitterness if you’re just pointing out the truth 🤷‍♂️