I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like girls and guys hate each other more than it used to be. It's everything from incels to radical feminists. Just so much hate. And I don't really understand why. Please explain to me, hahah.
I certainly don't. I think what you are seeing/referring to is mostly online where people can hide behind a computer and insult the other gender. Sure, that exists in real life to a degree, but it doesn't like it does online, including this site.
I see so many people constantly complaining about the other gender. It is not exclusive to guys or girls as you point out. I will have to say, however, I notice the guys (on this site) are much louder than the girls with that sort of thing. That is a very big generalization though.
There are plenty of really nice guys on this site. I do not hate the opposite gender. I am marrying one at the end of the month. He is an absolutely wonderful man. I do not think that I could build a better one if I had all the options to create the perfect guy. He is just that great.
As for other men in my life, I have zero complaints. I have a lot of good guy friends. People that I just meet in general are 95% of them very nice. I will have to say that the Aussie folks (where my fiancé is from) are some of the nicest people I have met.
I think men are great. But I'm seeing a lot of that hate on here especially. People are deciding their scant real-life experiences and what they see on social media is what everything is like, and try to disagree at your own peril. Lots of girls are taking all this to mean 90% of guys are still sexist, and the guys are taking it as 90% of women are all screaming feminists, and decide to use that as excuses not to try anymore, let alone better themselves.
It's all very messed up, and sad, and for those of us reading everything and quietly thinking: but that's not me . . . it makes potentially looking for a future partner or even friends very daunting.
Because hate and provocation is more profitable than peace. Articles and media use hate and slightly false information to get clicks and attention for their content. I don´t know exactly why but people are more keen to click on pages that trigger an outrage than an article that educates people.
So many content creator make videos or blogs that tries to provoke and push a gender war to make money while a peaceful video would be better for society but doesn´t generate the equal amount of money.
If one lives there life in the Social Media hell hole then they think what you think. I interface with 10 of thousands of people yearly. Every once in a blue moon someone crazy appears. All the crazies hide behind there computers and would dare not to behave this way in public. I'm talking global interactions... Internet media is crap and lies.
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Social Media isn't a good representation of real life
It isn't really men vs women. It is more that there are two VERY different sets of morals in modern society that are very different and incompatible with each other. Pretty much conservative values vs liberal ones. There are men AND women on each side of those moral values. It is just that more women tend to have liberal values and more men tend to have conservative values. That is why at first glance it may appear to be men vs women, but if you look closer to people's values, you will see that it is more of a difference in morals.
It's sadly true, and those saying it is only happening online are wrong. People are just more free to share their thoughts online than elsewhere, but they are still having those thoughts and emotions.
It started with feminism's overt hatred for males, and it was inevitable that men would get pissed off about it and respond, which they are doing with things like MGTOW, red pill and the mansospere. Now feminists claim the reactions of these men are even more reason why feminism is still needed, but feminists are the reason these groups exist in the first place. They essentially created them.
It's just an ever escalating viscous cycle now.
because of social media ,
social media is the root of all of those problems
everything used to be much easier ,, on how men and women used to love each other
the main focus was mainly to built a family and love each other
now you have instagram - twitter - facebook - who show you a much different reality
where men complain about women and women who complain about men
women feel like they deserve more from men without doing anything except put make up on their faces
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and men feel like they can do anything to women , just cause most things were invented by men
this state of mind is inside many guys and it doesn't go away
there's also other men who try to impress other women their entire life by working their ass off - and end up with nothing - all of these things cause confusion and hatred and social media shows this with movies and instagram and twitter and so on
I don’t know. Maybe it’s because people fear/hate those who are different from them. That’s why I am a non-binary Earthling. I love men and women and even fellow non-binary Earthlings. I ain’t radical. I have no time to hate those who hate me. I’m too busy loving those who love me.
Only online. I see men and women as whole getting along fine in the real world. Social media is not a reflection of reality. It never was and never will be. People like to run their mouths when protected by online anonymity, both men and women. Up close and personal though, they're pussycats.
Our culture has us thinking ass backwards. A restoration of conservative values would put things back in equilibrium. The pendulum has swung too far in the direction of progressivism.
People might have different experiences, but for me, it's only an issue online. The men and women get along just fine, and almost everyone I know is in a relationship.
I will say that on this site, men are the loudest. Which surprised me when I first made an account. The rest of the Internet is the opposite and full of man-bashing. It is women's turn to log on and be reminded of how terrible they are... ( I'm joking... they shouldn't let it bother them)
It's basically the one who have been rejected and hurt by the opposite gender start to hate the entire gender for it
There now more people who were the only child and didn't have brothers/sisters?
Feminism made women hate men, and men hate women. That's the bottom line.
Because the cancer that is called liberalism exists.
Understanding female nature doesn't mean you hate them
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