Who pays on first date? I got the most fair answer?

[Anonymous]

So much debate on this. So here’s my theory. No one pays. Is this a fair statement? The restaurant can be ok with the bill not being paid. What’s fair is fair

[bunnyboo24]

The answer:

Depends.

If you want a traditional woman you need to be a traditional man. Same if a woman wants a traditional man she should be. virgin ready to wake up 6 am and cook him his breakfast/lunch to bring to work every morning.

If I'm on a date I will offer to pay however if we split I will think "oh he is woke", becuase if he was traditional (provider/protector/leader) he would never evan let that happen. So what you want you need to be/work for. Both men and women want what they dont show/work for most of the time.

[Abbycado]

That’s the stupidest suggestion. Why tf would a restaurant foot the bill because you got a date?

[Zack-Bann]

Honestly if you can afford the meal just don’t bother with the headache of splitting it.


If she’s the one who chose a high end place against your wishes
You can figure out a split because otherwise you’d be the meal ticket which is not nice

[BarryLiverstone]

The guy pays. It’s one date, not much in the whole reletionship