I'm approaching thirty and I've never dated a girl in my life — what challenges will I face?

[Anonymous]

[Zack-Bann]

You will face plenty of challenges
But here’s a secret: “they’re fun”


Another secret: no one cares.
About anything.


If you don’t make a deal out of it then it’s nothing to worry about


Just be proactive and open minded and flexible


Don’t lock yourself into a rigid world view of what dating is or should be


Play the game to win no matter what


If you have some time on your hands you can check out a YouTube channel called “Playing with Fire”
It’s a guy who gives dating advice for free
I started watching him when I was a virgin and now I’ve been with 20 women. Many I dated for a while

[Asker]

bro I am short 165 cm guy , girls will not give a chance even if I did what is told in this channel.

[Zack-Bann]

Kudos for actually checking it out

In my comment I talked about “rigid world views”

Thinking that short guys are out of contention is one of them

In your original question you asked what challenges will you face

This is one of them

Yes it doesn’t make it easy to be short

But you can overcome it

Many short guys found love
It’s not unheard of

[Anonymous]

they'd look at you like a red flag in all honesty

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

because they'll think something is wrong with you for not dating

[Asker]

What if I was busy all that time and at this time I started dating?
what if I was in an arab country?

[Opinion Owner]

honestly, no one is gonna care what your reasoning is and they'll chalk it up as excuses whether true or not

it's a harsh world out there

[Asker]

So what now? what is your advice? lie about my situation? live single? die alone?

[Opinion Owner]

you just have to own it and not let it affect you

your attitude should be "so what?" if she don't it, then fine, let her go

make yourself into the qualifier not the one being qualified

[Abbycado]

I'm guessing the same challenges that you've faced until now. Whatever they may be, that is what you need to overcome or fix.

[Asker]

I mean toward girls, what the skills needed to talk and communicate with her?

[Abbycado]

It is no different than being able to talk to anyone. We are not mythical beings. Just be yourself.

[Asker]

I don't think so, it seems more complicated to me

[In_Trance]

What challenges will you face with what?