Dating

Why does this keep happening? Men seem kind of engaged at first and then stop with the open ended questions?


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https://imgur.com/a/NmQaFOM

I’m the purple msgs and he’s the grey. The convo hasn’t been going on very long at all, you don’t have to be a gamer to understand the context but just see the back and forth. 30F, this is a pattern that’s happened A LOT and I can’t tell if it’s b/c I’m boring. Or the guy is a dud, I’m unlucky or just the nature of OLD apps etc. I get that a lot of people want to jump to meeting in person asap but he hasn’t even asked yet so don’t think that’s the case here. As soon as I notice a shift whether it be the longer response times or the guy stops asking about me/not open-ended, I stop the conversation in its tracks. To be clear, that first message he sent wasn’t an actual direct message. It was a comment he made on one of my photos. I’m not going to beat a dead horse, I took the hint and stopped replying.

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Why does this keep happening? Men seem kind of engaged at first and then stop with the open ended questions?
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