Why do women say dating is easier for them?

Question

- If according to whatever data, women find 80% of men unattractive and only swipe right a small percentage of time using dating apps

- Men have to initiate and approach even if the attraction is mutual

- Women typically date across and up due to hypergamy so usually up more than across

- With women all they have to do is look decent or at least good in his eyes but men have to have his stuff together, careers, finances, looks, personality, height, etc.

- Men because of how they out number women and all the requirements they typically have to meet, usually deal with more competition.

- Women can sleep up, meaning a woman who is a legimate 5 out of 10 could sleep with guys rated higher on the attraction AND life scale. Usually men cannot do the same.

- Women are very specific to what they like and their type. Meaning a man can do everything right.. keep his hair cut, smell nice, dress well, keep in shape, have a career, have manners but will get beat out by the tattoo artist who runs a tattoo parlor, loves to vape and work on bikes.

I could go on and on and on.. like where in anything listed above makes it easier for men lol when it comes to dating and relationships.

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Why do women say dating is easier for men?**

The question is wrong. Was supposed to read "Why do women say dating is easier for men?

Someone34 · Accepted Answer

My advice on this:

- Stay away from dating apps. Unless its serious one, you mention swiping which I know you do on Tinder. Tinder is littered with idiots, assholes and whatnot.

- On these fastapps there are literally only girls who want attention, they log in and see how many people have swiped yes on them. Then they get their ego fed, its an extension for those who are addicited to social media. Seriously they all look the same, haven't you noticed this? Its the same shallow ones all the time.

- Then to the guys, guys are swiping yes much more, you said it yourself. These people know this, they use it as an egoboost, its not about dating, its about boosting the ego during the day.

- Then you bring up how women swipe, this is correct aswell, women pick more carefully, cause they in a broader perspective on these apps, guys only think: Fuck.
And thats it, thats why all these men swipe so much and never find any. Men and women work different there on those apps.

To sum it up: Most women on there: Shallow. Most men on there: Dumbass idiots basically, they swipe on everything. And dickpicks arnt uncommon.

What does it say about a person? Who sends picture of their cock to someone they have been talking to for a little while? That appauling and crazy that they think they would like that.

But I have a theory as to why these men do that, they might see a lot of shallow girls maybe in very loose outfits. They might think: "she's a slut". "She wants to fuck". Etc.

Spend time on serious dating apps instead if you are gonna choose something. Tinder and the other ones where you swipe and stuff? Full of airheads and dickpickers.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Because they cannot empathize and only see it from their point of view.

They think having endless attention, guys always talking to them and wanting them sexually, always getting dates, sex anytime they want but not being able to ONE guy they want to commit is worse than being alone with no caring you exist.

heruncommonsense · Accepted Answer

Most women are not on dating apps.
"Date up" is an oxymoron. If someone doesn't want to have sex with you, that means you have less value than them on the dating market.
Males are the ones who demand sex, so women have more sexual value than males.
Males all hate women, and I'm supposed to feel bad about rejecting them? Tell another one!
Haircuts are unattractive. The fact that males get haircuts shows that males do not intend to attract women.
Males do not dress well. That's just not a thing.
"but will get beat out by the tattoo artist who runs a tattoo parlor, loves to vape and work on bikes." Oddly specific, but this just goes to show that women don't only care about the things you listed lmfao.

All males lie for sex, choke women (which causes brain damage), and if they can, they cheat and rape. You also refuse to listen to you girlfriends when they tell you what they want during sex, so for women, sex is often unpleasant at best and excruciatingly painful at worst.

Males have it easy because they don't have to worry about their health and safety.

I will likely never lose my virginity because I genuinely don't see the point of letting a male into my life. I have nothing to gain and everything to lose.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I've never heard a woman say dating was easy. Period.

AviatorTom · Answer

Answering the corrected question... Many women, in particular feminists, feel they are oppressed by men, thinking men always have it easier in everything they do.

Anonymous · Answer

Because every woman can find a man if the has no expectations...

Men mostly think with their penis and to find a man is always easier if you have a pussy than the other way.

To let someone is that is the power or to beg to find a whole is more difficult

godfatherfan · Answer

Dating is WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY easy for women. They barely have to do anything to get a date.

Now, "Finding the right person, or a quality person" is difficult for both sexes. Though exponentially harder for men then for women.

Spencer10 · Answer

I honestly have never heard a woman say that dating was easy... quite the opposite. Guys behavior seems to make dating torture for women.

msc545 · Answer

Women say this because women are completely unwilling to be accountable for anything or take the blame for anything. Even stuff like this. They do exactly what you have described, yet they will continue to deny it to their dying day because they actually understand that it's basically pretty shitty.

Just like the right wing, women routinely blame the opposite side, in this case men, for everything bad that they themselves actually do.

Nikki1989 · Answer

YAWN! What a load of pretentious wankery!

beenherebefore · Answer

I don’t think is easier for women to date. It may be easier for them to find someone to date but is not easier for them to maintain a relationship.

douride2 · Answer

You are generalizing a lot here. Who are these woman that say daring is easy? How about you produce some data to back your claims up.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

You have to applaud most women 👏🏻  They know what they want, and they know they're desired. Usually.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I don't think people believe that dating is easier for men than women.. In fact many seem to think the opposite more often..

genericname85 · Answer

the only reason women can find 80% of men unattractive is the fact that still enough of them wanna fuck them. that's how easy they have it.

Anonymous · Answer

Using the word hypergamy automatically eliminates you from the dating pool.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with the mindset and the men's dating advice Community has changed my mentality and they say that by nature men are in default in scarcity with women, women naturally get more attention than men do that is a fact

MJVillarama · Answer

Everyone thinks the other side has it easier

Anonymous · Answer

Because it is, they can easily find someone to date.  Women on average are more attractive than men, so they have more choice and opportunities.

blackeagle007 · Answer

I gotta agree dating is easier for women. They always have so many options. They have their pick to choose on apps

LiamJHayden · Answer

The average girl gets far more hits on dating apps than the average guy.

Abbycado · Answer

To whatever data…not provided XD

BarryLiverstone · Answer

That’s online dating. They mean actual dating

Anonymous · Answer

Because it is?

Anonymous · Answer

Because thier idiots.

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