To be observed vs Being the observer. Which one would you prefer and why?

[thegreenyogi]

[HawkPerception]

I can't see anyone choosing the observed here 😂 Most people enjoy their privacy and prefer not to be observed unless it's by someone they want to be seen by, like their partner or family. Even people who like the spotlight like comedians and actors/actresses would likely choose that they prefer to observe.

I choose being the observer. It's what I've done my whole life anyways. I'm always analyzing everything and everyone around me. Facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, etc. I'd like to consider myself a highly analytical person

[Alex-Snow]

I have been both an observer and ofc being watched... and yes we are talking about sex... both are kinda fun!

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!

[DishLady]

There's a nice chemistry with the give-and-take... two people observing each other. If it's just one person observing it feels creepy.

[MisterPandemonium]

I would prefer to be the observer. As long as I'm not observing in a weird way. Like I wouldn't want to be observing someone through a telescope when they were in their bedroom.

But then again, I wouldn't want anyone observing me like that either.

I know you didn't offer this as an option, but I think I would prefer to go quietly unnoticed, while I mind my own business.

[FirePhoenixZ]

I’d rather be both, the one who observes with awareness and the one who’s worth observing.

Power isn’t in choosing one role, it’s in mastering both, mystery in stillness, and magnetism in presence.

[Ironco]

I'm almost always watching and observing everyone around me, but I usually don't notice people observing me. I don't know if that is good or bad...

[thegreenyogi]

I think it's good. I'm an observer.

[Ironco]

Takes one to know one...😜

[thegreenyogi]

Indeed it does.🤭

[Tarifa]

I have always been an observer of the world around me. I'm curious by nature and love to see events unfold, even if I don't take part in them.

[Xawyx-2]

Depends on the observer and the observed object, sometimes I would like both, sometimes I would dislike both.

[Zack-Bann]

I prefer to be observed
But I have been an observer my entire life in a way as well

[mysteriousNicholas]

@thegreenyogi I do like observational comedy when I'm not being observed 👀👀👀👀

[Shiprex]

Observer to formulate and analyse the goings on

[DrPepper12]

WOW. Exhibitionist & voyeur both have their appeal. I don't know!

[Agape93]

Observer. I don't like being stared at.

[Anonymous]

I really liked being both at the same time.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Observer Pretty simple I just like people watching

[Cidknee]

That depends on if clothes are involved.

[RedInnocent69]

Definitely prefer being the observer

[Rosemaiden]

I want to be Observed