Does not sleep with a man too fast help him decipher if he wants long term or not?

[Anonymous]

Will sleeping with a guy too fast ruin my chances or it doesn't matter? Like if all girls knew the recipe to not sleep with a man too fast Will make her a girlfriend or you just have to be THAT girl for him to make you a girlfriend

[Summeroflove]

Well most relationships are too overly sexual. If someone’s just wanting to have sex with you or jumps into bed too fast. Chances are they will cheat. 100 percent of the time? Nothings 100 percent. But probably 99 times out of 100.

Long term relationship material goes both ways. A man whose wanting a genuine relationship isn’t going to just jump into bed witn you and they don’t want a woman who easily jumps into bed with men.

[HighValue]

It depends on her past. If she slept around in her past, she will NEVER be long term relationship material for a good quality man for the rest of her life no matter how fast or slow she tries to take it with the new guy.

People should never have casual sex, and only have sex with someone after they BOTH have a strong emotional attachment and discuss their moral and long term life goals compatibility.

[Asker]

she will NEVER be long term relationship material for a good quality man for the rest of her life no matter how fast or slow she tries to take it with the new guy

Why is that?

[HighValue]

That totally depends on her past. Did she participate in casual sex in her past? Is she still in contact with an ex? Does she have kids from her past? THOSE are the things that matter for a good quality man to take her seriously for long term. Also, if she actually is a good quality, moral woman, she needs to avoid the bad quality men, usually the ones with a past of casual sex themselves, or a past of drug use, or frequent alcohol use, or the type that stays friends with other people that have a past of cheating on their partners. Stay away from those kinds of guys. They too will never be a good partner.

[Nikki1989]

You can play that game if you wish, but it doesn't prove much, if anything.

[slatyb]

It doesn't matter, and you don't want to be with a man who would judge you for having sex with him too soon. Most relationships don't last long. Some last one date, some three, some a month, some three months. If you have sex early in a relationship, then you will have had sex with a lot of men who weren't around for very long. Do what you feel. If you want to have sex and have a willing partner, go ahead and do it and enjoy it.

[RavVid]

If you have sex on the first date the any sensible many will assume you have before.

If you are just for sex than we possibly don't care about you body count. I don't.

If you are for a relationship then I do care quite a lot. I do.

You can lie and hide pertinent facts but it is destructive if he finds out. You'd be better being honest. If he is not ok with what you have done move on.

[jahaims]

If a guy would sleep with you right away regardless of if you would he isn't mature enough for a relationship

[Anonymous]

It depends, but I would saybit helps. Someone just trying to sleep with you will cut his losses much earlier.

[dudeinohio]

If you wait too long, the guy will lose interest.