Have you ever fallen in love with someone who you weren't initially physically attracted to, but their personality made you fall in love anyway?

[sage2021]

I remember that I wasn't immediately attracted to the person in my last relationship, but he had such a terrific personality that I saw beyond his looks and started finding him sexy and became very attracted to him in a short period of time. I fell madly in love with him.
RIP Patrick John 🍪🍪🍪🥛🥛🥛

[Genie23]

Yes, my current partner... lol. He's physically very attractive now, but when I first met him... he looked like too younger than his age even though he was in his early 20s. 😅 Yes, it's been over 10 years since we first met. Also, back then I was not interested in dating or anything. I was so happy with experiencing other important things in life, while he was in a relationship with someone else. I didn't know he had a crush on me. I always thought he was a gem of a person. We got along so well. We understood each other very well from day one. Then I disappeared from his life and other friends life. When things got better in my life and I came back, I started seeing him differently. He was single. His personality is great and the love he has his family and friends made me adore him. His intelligence, the way he treated me.. these things and many other things made me eventually fall in love Also, he started looking not only his age but also build some muscles, so I think I got lucky.

[sage2021]

@Genie23

I'm truly happy for both of you.

Looking beyond a person's looks and having a relationship with them, getting to know them, and not passing on them because of their physical appearance can end up in a deep and loving relationship like yours.

I don't believe that even if he still looks younger than his chronological age, you probably wouldn't have just brushed him off. There was something there that kept you interested in him.

You hit the jackpot girlfriend❣️

[Genie23]

🥺 So sweet of you. You're right. We both were on different chapters in life. So, we got to know each other as friends before we started dating. That really helped strength our bond. Now we know each other inside out and know we will overcome any obstacle. That's true. I wouldn't have turned him down after realising how great he is and how perfect he is for me.
Thank you so much, girlfriend ♥️

[Genie23]

Thank you for MHO!!

[fcp23]

This is nice

[Simslover92]

Yes, my first and only ex-boyfriend. I wasn't initially attracted to him in college but he grew on me later on in life. And now I find him extremely attractive.

[Plugs]

Oh what personality does he have

[Simslover92]

He's very intelligent and filled with humor. It's really part of his charm. He has a lot of trauma from his past and I guess that's what makes him so humorous. A lot of humorous people have tragic backstories.

[Plugs]

True , how do you both look? How tall are u both

[Simslover92]

We're both short and small. He's 5 foot 6 and I'm 5'4.

[EzraIsShy76028]

@Plugs "How do you both look?" Maybe my memory's inaccurate but I think I can several recall people on this website asking this same EXACT question word for word almost every time someone talks about the relationship between themselves and their SO...

Not sure if it's all the same person or if my memory's accurate but if it IS accurate then it's kind of weird.

No offense to you specifically I just found it to be a weird phenomenon assuming it does happen and is not just in my head.

[Rei13]

I have with my current partner. He is an amazing person. It’s funny cause I always thought that wasn’t a thing but it was the same way with both my sister and her husband then a coworker and hers

[AviatorTom]

Yes, we worked together, didn't like each other at all, and then something changed. We got married, had 3 kids, and amicably divorced after 20+ years.

[EzraIsShy76028]

No... then yes... then no again. I know it sounds kind of complicated. So let me explain.

Back when I was 18 there was this girl who had a crush on me who was like 4'9 and 250 pounds. So very short and very fat. And she dyed her hair crazy colors like pink or orange but it wasn't well done at all. I wasn't attracted to her in the slightest.

However I was an incredibly insecure, depressed, and suicidal loser nerd. And she basically told me all the things I wanted to hear and perceived me the way I wanted to be perceived. And so we fell in love with each other. I thought she was the nicest person on planet Earth.

However AGAIN... one day she just randomly for no reason lost interest in me and made a literal list of everything she hated about me. Like:

1. You're not that hot. There are a million guys hotter than you.

2. You're nothing but a depressed whiny loser.

3. Your jokes aren't funny in the slightest.

And it went on just like that for like 50 more things.

And so we broke up...

I thought this was supposed to be a story like: "Boy thinks girl is ugly, turns out ugly girl is actually a really nice person and they fall in love... only for ugly girl to turn out to be a horrible person anyway."

[sage2021]

@EzralsShy76028

That's quite a story with so many twists and turns.
I truly hope that your life is on the right track now and things are better for you. 🙂

[EzraIsShy76028]

Yes, haha. It's an interesting story to tell from a sort of third person hindsight perspective but let me tell you from a first person perspective when I was living through it it was NOT fun in the slightest. 🤣 It actually fucked me up for a long time to think I actually found the right person only for THAT to happen. 💀

Thanks! Not sure I'd personally say my life is on the right track now or that things are better for me but I'm doing my best here, lol. I am though at least doing better than that time period I described. My life is better without her in it for sure, hehe. 😅

[sage2021]

And her life is better without you in it slapping her around like you said in your opinion the other day.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Huh? First of all, is that supposed to be an insult?

Second, I have no idea what you're talking about? I don't even remember making a post/opinion about this ex recently except for maybe once or twice a long time ago.

Third, I don't know if you mean "slapping her around" as in literally just physically hitting her or emotionally abusing her but I definitely didn't hit her. There were verbal arguments but nothing physical.

I THINK you might be mixing me up with someone else or just remembering wrong. There's a chance you could be right but as far as I can see what you're saying doesn't add up.

[sage2021]

@EzraldShy76028

Sorry that reply was meant for someone else.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Oh... damn... I was about to say, haha. 🤣

Now that you clarified that's actually pretty funny. I was like what the hell? Did I one day make a post about abusing my ex and then forgot about it? Am I going insane? Is my memory really THAT bad?

All of that overthinking only to find out the reply wasn't meant for me. What a relief. 🤣

[sage2021]

@EzralsShy76028
I'm sorry I hurt 🤕 your brain thinking 🤔 about it.

[EzraIsShy76028]

Hehe, no worries. I tend to overthink things literally all the time anyway. If it wasn't this then it'd be something else. 😅

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Yes, I have.

Sometimes someone’s presence, the way they think, and the way they make you feel slowly becomes its own kind of attraction.

You start noticing the little things, their humor, how they listen, how they treat people and suddenly they’re beautiful in a way that looks couldn’t have predicted.

It’s a quieter kind of falling in love, but it lasts longer.

[sage2021]

@Bitter_Sweet94

Excellent opinion!! 🙂👍🏼

[Zack-Bann]

The girl I fell the hardest for in my life was actually not my type at all physically


But every time she spoke and smiled with eyes while talking to me I was in another dimension


It was insanely hard getting over her


But a decade later she’s finally in the past
(Although we’re still good friends but we both changed so much that boyhood love is gone)

[exitseven]

Yes, i met a girl in college. She was just average looking but she was very athletic and active. We did lots of things together. The more time i spent with her the better she started to look. She really was very cute.
After a while I realized that I was in love with her. We were together for 4 years.

[BruceWayne32123]

No. I’m too shallow for that. I’ve met a few girls that I wasn’t very attracted to that I definitely had a connection with but I just can’t be with someone I’m not physically attracted to. When you’re in a relationship with someone that is supposed to be the only person you are intimate with… so in my case I couldn’t be with someone who I didn’t feel that way about. It would have led to me cheating on them since I couldn’t get what I wanted/needed from a physical aspect.

[Kaneki05]

Of course, even more so most of my ex's were long distance and I knew nothing about how they looked as like me used a character for their pfp yet I wanted them.

[AgentG111]

Yeah they were a decent looking lady but the way they handled things and dealt with problems and ease of talking with others and me I had a like for her that turned into a love.

We got along and had a relationship for about a year.

[McLlovin]

Yes but its only happened 1 time. I friend zoned her, and then I started looking at her in a different way after a while. Lol

[genericname85]

no and i can't see myself ever having that happen. cause i can be friends with such a person. I don't know why i'd wanna fuck them.

[jkreuger95]

yes. too sweet is an easy personality trait to tell the other signals to stfu

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah, but now that I'm older I am never gonna settle for a dude I don't fully love the looks of..

[Anonymous]

Not really, for me, it was always love at first sight.

But all of my loves were unrequited.

[robocop666]

I did this to a woman I had a crush on. Just talked to and she fell in love with me. Women say this about me.

[fish5505_87]

Yes, It's a long time ago, but yes!

[Sal_Monella]

Love is not a fall. It is a decision.

[sage2021]

@Sal_Monella

Perhaps for you, it's a decision.
But when my late boyfriend was falling in love with me, here's how he described it to me.
It's like I am falling off a cliff, and there are mountains on each side of me. And asI am falling I am reaching out to the mountains on each side of me for a big ring or something I could get a hold of to stop me, but there weren't any - and so I just fell!

[JuliusCaesarr]

love is a lie

[Anonymous]

All MSN are con artist. Don't fall for them

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't think so...