I was having a pretty bad day yesterday didn’t feel like talking to anyone?

[Anonymous]

This guy coworker said good morning is Spanish I wasn’t in the mood and didn’t say anything back he sounded upset I continued on with my day, until later that same day he said my name and I needed him for a problem so I called him over he got very upset and said ohhh now you need me and talking to me when there is a problem and started raising his voice a little bit said he forgives me not that I asked for it anyways I don’t under this problem bc his married and I never wanted to come off wrong on him in first place so I know I was wrong for not saying hi back but I’m not even that type of person in first place, did he just think he very important Person or what?

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Maybe he's just being playful and teasing you.

[ChangeMefot]

Everyone has these days, I understand

[Asker]

Thanks mam but why he taking it serious

[DishLady]

Has nothing to do with marriage. You were rude and are trying to excuse it by saying you were in a bad mood. At work no one cares about your mood. You're there to work and part of that is keeping up with pleasant conversations and appearances in the workplace. It was also rude of you to then ask for a favor WITHOUT at all recognizing that you were rude in ignoring him earlier in the day. He's right. You only talked to him when you wanted something. That's not how offices/teams work.

[Asker]

Ohhh please

[DishLady]

See? Rude.

[SueShe]

The most probable reason for him getting upset is that he tried to flirt with you, as most men do when they come across a younger lady and you just gave him the cold shoulder.

He felt rejected and put in his place. You state that you are not the kind of person that is not replying to others and he was probably taken aback by your lack of answer. That must have offended him and then you asking for help gave him a reason to tell you how he felt.

No need to worry. Men will forgive a young lady they have a crush on.

[Asker]

His a married man with kids

[Anonymous]

So what is the question?

[Asker]

Why he getting upset

[Anonymous]

Thanks for sharing.

[Asker]

Yea?