I got a problem and I don't know how to stop it... I go in coffee shops.. and all the time I give bad vibes to people who around me.. etc?

[Anonymous]

Or I look weird at them and I can't control it... did anyone had it and changed.. thank you

[Nikki1989]

The problem is usually an unconscious communication of social anxiety or discomfort that others are picking up on.

[slatyb]

Why do you believe this is true? More likely, people are paying no attention to you. Have you considered professional counseling?

[Asker]

I wish this to not be true... but I feel it on my own skin literally... from the shame to judgement to weirdness of mine people coming across... I know I give to myself to much importance by thinking the follow but... often 3 people from 5 prefer fast to change the sit near me... like I wish I was just invisible

[slatyb]

You feel it -- that doesn´t mean it's true. My wife and father both believed that other people considered them inferior in some way. The truth was that other people didn't consider them at all. Both could have been helped with professional counseling, but they rejected the idea.

[Anonymous]

I also seem to only give off bad vibes. I don't know what to do.

[Asker]

Really

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. I seem to get a lot of positive female attention, but it never amounts to anything.