Am I an asshole?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is fairly obese and talks about wanting to lose weight but I actually really love her body and want to keep her fat. She always tells me how hot it would be for me to control her in a toxic way or how she would literally do anything for me sexually and she knows I like big girls would I be wrong for this?

[Bolt1104]

Liking her body the way it is doesn’t make you an asshole. Everyone has preferences, and it’s okay to find her attractive at her current size. What would be wrong is trying to keep her from losing weight if she wants to for her own health or confidence. Her body is hers not something for you to control, even if she jokes about it or frames it as hot.

If she genuinely wants to lose weight, the healthiest thing you can do is support her goals, not discourage them because it benefits you. And if she’s talking about wanting toxic dynamics or saying she’d “do anything,” that’s something the two of you should talk through carefully. Real love means supporting each other in healthy ways, not feeding each other’s insecurities or fantasies at the cost of well-being.

So no, you’re not an asshole for liking bigger women but you would be crossing a line if you tried to hold her back from becoming who she wants to be. Respect her body, her choices, and her health first. The attraction is the easy part, the support is what matters.

[itsannalee]

Just fuck a pig if you want something fatty and big, her body her rules.

[Anonymous]

Take it from Peter Griffin. "FAT se is the hottest sex there is there's so many boobs you won't know who's boobs you're grabbing, her boobs or your boobs".😆

https://www.youtube.com/embed/o4dNuUWf7cM

[Staximus]

Think about her best interests long-term, which would be staying healthy by not being fat

[slatyb]

Yes, because it's unhealthy for her.

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