Am I the asshole?

[Part2603]

I have this friend that I care very much about. I confessed to her that I liked her, already. Now we're still friends.

Anyway, I want her to be happy. She has hangups about love and dating I guess. She also thinks she's ugly. So maybe I'm a bit of a simp, but that's not the question for today. There's other fish in the sea...

We just had a chat where she was venting about some weird boy that she's been talking to, and I (perhaps stupidly) tried to tell her to enjoy it even if it's a bit weird...

I probably should have just listened... right? Analysis might have just made her more self conscious...

FUCK!

Am I the asshole for not just nodding my head and letting her vent about her "schizo" paramour? Was it a mistake to encourage her to have fun and be happy?

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah dude, I don't think you're an asshole. You were just trying to look out for your friend and give your honest perspective to cheer her up. It's tough when they're down on themselves or going through shit with guys.

Being a supportive buddy is the most important thing. And it sounds like you really care how she feels deep down, ya know? Even if your advice wasn't perfect, your heart was in the right place trying to lift her spirits.

Plus girls can be complicated - what seems helpful to us might not register the same way. So don't sweat it too much. If she seemed more down after, just make sure to listen extra hard next time and hype her up however she needs.

That's what real friends do. I'm sure she knows you only wanna see her happy. Just chat it out more if she's still feeling weird and let her vent it all out. y'all will be good, bro. Keep being there for her - that's what matters most in the end.

[Libidononexistenteww]

who cares shut up and mind urs I mean my own life such a mess

[Kayla45]

Sounds like a mistake on your part, but luckily mistakes can be resolved if you really mean it and apologize.

[SleepyLumania]

You're such a jealous hater :) you're an angry bitter pathetic woman good luck with that disgusting personality you're absolutely miserable and gross :)

[Kayla45]

@SleepyLumania Okay?

[SleepyLumania]

You think I care I don't live on this just because you're salty in your everyday life doesn't mean you can take it out on me :)

[SleepyLumania]

I'm not even gonna bother this is stupid

[Kayla45]

I don't even know who you are, why the aggressive attitude? Okay then bye I suppose?

[SleepyLumania]

I'm sorry I just felt attacked

[SleepyLumania]

You can remove the comments I'm just going through a tough week I was trying to find humor in this week I'm sorry my life sucks right now

[boobliker]

if you asking us then you must be!

[shades777]

before i read it, yes you are if you have to ask