Why do guys actually ghost you? Especially the ones who don't seem the type?

[Anonymous]

What's so difficult about just saying you've had a nice time but don't see it going anywhere?

[Chazmatazz269]

Maybe he didn’t have a nice time and you didn’t make it clear that you did. Most guys don’t ghost women that they’re interested in unless she puts off a rejection vibe. We know women lie and often excuse their lies as niceties. So even if you say, “I had a nice time. Let’s do it again.”, that can fall flat if you put off “What time is it? I need to get out of here!” or “I can do better than this clown!” vibes the entire time you were together.
Maybe you said or did something grossly offensive to him and he has never had to reject a woman so he had no idea how to do it “nicely”. After all, millions of women used to swear that ghosting IS a nice way to reject men. Right up until men started doing it to them. Now there’s a better way? 😂😂😂

[Asker]

ok wow-that's a lot. This guy texted me every night for a week, called me twice and spent hours on the phone with me every time. Then we went out, had the PERFECT date, he even extended our time together. He gave me a huge hug when he dropped me off but when I texted later to say what a good time I'd had he gave me the "I really enjoyed it too. I probably can't get together before the holidays but let's absolutely stay in touch" and I haven't heard from him since. I don't know how I could've spelled it out more for him.

[YourExLover69]

I have never ever ghosted anyone in my life but myself victim of ghosting by lot of people, girls, even on this website and online world. Guess I'm chatty, straightforward, friendly. People are lazy to write something before ghosting. 😒

Guess you talking about online world too.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

A lot of guys ghost not because they’re “bad,” but because they’re uncomfortable with emotional confrontation.

Telling someone “I’m not feeling it” feels harsh to them, so they take the easy exit silence.

It’s immature, but it’s common.

The ones who don’t seem like the type usually struggle with disappointing people.

Instead of being straightforward, they disappear and hope the situation fades on its own.

It’s not about you.

It’s about their avoidance.

[beenherebefore]

Because they’re not interested or serious enough to pursue you.

[Staximus]

Some people are fast movers and don't care about getting to know you first, and if you don't put out the "I want to fuck you" signal or vibe right away then they think the date was a bust. I've had girls give me the shake because I wasn't trying to fuck them on the first date (been there, done that. Guys who are just trying to get in your pants will do it to girls, too.

[Anonymous]

They are very inconsiderate.

[zagor]

Easier than having to explain things.

[BarryLiverstone]

He ghosted because he wasn’t into you