Why do guys ghost you?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Sure, you are talking about yourself... men ghost for the same reason women do.

The were unsure for whatever reason, and then got bored with it, or decided it's not worth it.

And what do I mean by whatever reason. I mean any reason you can come up with.

Another person came long, and she was unsure until she decided it's not going to be you.

She talked a good game, and now that the chips are down, she is intimidated.

She woke up on morning and looked in the mirror and just decided for no real reason at all, that your just not the one.

She banged some other guy and now can not look in the face and do the right thing.

I mean you never know why... but bottom line is this. For whatever reason you are not the one, and it more than likely had everything to do with them and nothing to do with you.

Somoneelse · Accepted Answer

I only ghost girls when I notice her putting in zero to minimal effort or when I see her replying very slow herself (taking days to respond). I had this a lot when i replied fast myself and she just waited for hours or days to respond with minimal effort to keep the communication going.

Thestupidusername · Accepted Answer

Probblaby a mix of something you did yourself that was wrong and lack of communication skills from his side.

Jennz6 · Accepted Answer

I don’t get ghosted lol sometimes I wish they would

HawkPerception · Answer

People may ghost others for various reasons, such as fear of confrontation, changing priorities, personal issues, or simply losing interest. It's often a reflection of their own circumstances rather than a reflection of your worth.

exitseven · Answer

I ghosted a girl once. This was before the internet. I just stopped calling her on the phone and never returned her calls. I was angry with her because she was not a very good girlfriend. I never called her again

NathanDavis · Answer

not something I've ever done... but my guess is that they were just living the moment, and didn't care beyond they wanted to get? or they did get?

syncheart · Answer

I don't know. I would say that 99% of the time I'm a kind person. And most of the time I hold back my strong opinions in private messages. BUT it is getting to the point to where I am tired of walking on eggshells because over the course of 21 years doing that hasn't prevented ghosting.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

In the context of dating:

Usually it’s me who’s been ghosted when it does happen.

But mostly it’s more things fizzle out because someone’s heart (s) wasn’t into it, moved on, or efforts felt futile.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

If it wasn't a serious relationship I don't feel like there's any point in having a closure conversation, it just doesn't work out for simple reasons.

Sonorous · Answer

Maybe people ghost other people when they feel that they're not worth the effort an explanation would take? Not sure. 🤔

ProbablyClueless · Answer

There's some issue they have with the person but they aren't comfortable trying to reconcile the issue.

dolemite58 · Answer

cuz we think u’ll go nuts if we’re straightforward about rejecting you

boggboss · Answer

Because people think ots better to ghost then actually end things these days

JesseP1nk · Answer

I can talk about my experience... I start ghost someone if i see it is not gonna work. Or i see she is not that intrested or there is someone else beside me. Basicly it all look waste of time.

MrCharlie13 · Answer

If a girl nags you frequently, or is being too possessive and won't stop even if you tell her to. Also when a guy doesn't care enough to take the time to reply

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Loss of interest and wanting to avoid awkward situations.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Cowards ghost people because they can't face the other person and say it's over. Ghosting is something I would never do

Minahh · Answer

Because they are shitty people who are not accountable for their actions and don't know how to communicate like adults.

SunnyRS · Answer

Well technically it's not only guys that ghost girls but that's neither here nor there. The reason can be several from fear to lack of interest.

Skunked · Answer

Why do girls keep guys they don't share a mutual attraction for around?

krin_m · Answer

I don't ghost anyone. If I don't want to communicate, I tell them truthfully why. I do think that women do it same as guys though.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Either the pussy wasn't good, or she is overall too much of a hassle.

SHAKIR006 · Answer

May be they are feared to come straight to you and say what they need.

justabuddy · Answer

Ghosting people is easier to do than to break up in person. It's usually about morals and guts.

Chthou95 · Answer

You mean why did chad ghost you? Because he got bored and there's other women he wants to rail

rachel776b · Answer

girls do it just as often 🤷‍♀️

bededazzle · Answer

it’s easier than making up a white lie

NikolaiIvanovB41 · Answer

I thought you were already dating someone.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Cause some of them are jerks

RedInnocent68 · Answer

I would never ghost you. 😘

AmeerX · Answer

Actually I get ghosted a lot :/

Twalli · Answer

Easier than having to break up with you in person

WhitneySnow · Answer

No clue

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I have

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Vice visa both do it

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