Girls, why do you ghost guys?

[TsundereMatrix]

It’s a mixture of A and C. Most of the guys who have expressed feelings for me have some sort of addiction or mental issue that I don’t want to deal with. I was like that at one point and I got ghosted because of that so I worked on myself and improved myself and I feel like they need to do the same. The ones I like never tell their intentions and I’m usually taken advantage of so I just disappear.

[Corina_J]

I don't ghost.
I find it a cowardly behavior.

I think it shows that the ghoster isn't in touch with their emotions and honest with themselves, let alone being honest with someone else when there is a conflict.

It's an absolute bullshit way to be.

[Vickysplash_]

Generally I don’t ghost people. If I’m not interested in them I just don’t talk to urgente/try not to give them hopes. On dating apps, it may happen I match someone I find nice but not mind blowing (I actually do a lot of selection but amongst my matches there are nice ones and very few mind blowing ones). I generally only write to the mind blowing ones. It may happen I answer to the ones who are “just” nice, and that I just don’t try to keep the conversation going. But I’d never do that with someone I met or someone I already made plans with, which is something that happens to me a lot (guys ghosting me after asking me out…)

[tatianamay]

Some men don't take rejection well. A guy literally stalked me and made my life a living hell when I rejected him gently. I never even led him on. That guy was obsessed with me. And yes, this shit actually happened. He was 16 as well. This happened over 2 months ago. Better to block him rather than being truthful.

[zaharuh]

It's definitely all 3 sometimes like guys love to create expectations out of nothing and think because I get around I'm just going to sleep with whoever i talk to 😕

[JosyJosy]

Last one I ghosted was being needy, just talked to talk and it didn't have any value, it was just about nothing really, saying he is depressed, but I was going through something too at the time, so when I said I was feeling depressed too, he immediately dropped it and went to his random talking about nothing persona. Felt like the depression card was just played for attention seeking and I was not having it.

[snowgirl123]

I would ghost a guy if: I don't want to be with him romantically or if I may be extremely interested in him, but he does not show how his intentions truly, if I think he's lying, I will avoid him. I would also ghost him if he ghosts me. I can be dying to spend time with him, but if he doesn't approach, what can I do?

[lilyanony1]

I don't usually ghost men.
I usually tell them why I'm severing ties.
Unless they did something unforgivable.

Generally it's incompatibility, something they said/did that I can't get along with, or they demanded something of me I felt was too much to ask.

I'm a straightforward person, you know.
I don't mince my words.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Because either:
I've been telling you the issue and nothing is working.
You can't read the room.
You aren't doing your part.

So its time to dip without the drama.

[cinnamonwaves]

I never ghost anyone, I straight up just tell them if I have a problem with them and then part ways. in my opinion ghosting is so childish and immature and makes that person come off as a child and like they can't handle adult situations

[Anonymous]

"Why do people ghost"... "I know right"... "Why do you ghost"... "Well because..." Lmfao. Hypocrites. Typical. Judge, all the while you are no better. We all have our secrets. Hide yours all you wish; I know they are there.

[Justneedtokno]

I don’t ghost guys I stay I don’t want to be with them and they still try to stick around. Like this one guy he would just hang on the phone with me no conversation and expect that I wanted to be with him

[KryoAsteri]

I've only ever ghosted one guy and it was because he got really, really intense and we weren't even a couple, just friends.

[Aquariusmystery]

B, but also sometimes they’re just boring and we have nothing in common. I don’t want to talk about cars all day, you know?

[Anonymous]

I don't really ghost, I always say I don't want contact anymore, only time they would not be worth my time and respect for that is if they have been deceitful/lying.. so maybe C is closest to that.

[dustybiker]

Why do men ghost woman?
Isn’t this just lack of ability to confront your own problems with respect? Men/woman both guilty of lacking communication skills.

[Subarugirl]

Lot of men don't tend to take rejection very well, so it's easier to disappear rather than deal with the violence or reproductions of a man who can't deal with rejections

[Anonymous]

Because they do not initiate so that’s being uninterested

[Anonymous]

Because they had a boyfriend and their desire to cheat possibly faded away.

[TacosRAwesome]

D... They were dicks and I don't have the energy to tell them twice why.

[Starwitch23]

I've ghosted a guy because I didn't feel safe around him. He was into hacking stuff and obsessive.

[Pumpkinspice009]

I will only ghost the guy I love, it feels good to keep track of what he’s doing etc, when you love someone you can’t get them out your head you know.

[Anonymous]

Cause if not they don't let you go, they cling to you.

[Dsg1193]

D) None of the above