They were needy
They wanted things I didn't wanna give them
They didn't state their intentions
A and B
A and C
B and C
A, B, and C
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It’s a mixture of A and C. Most of the guys who have expressed feelings for me have some sort of addiction or mental issue that I don’t want to deal with. I was like that at one point and I got ghosted because of that so I worked on myself and improved myself and I feel like they need to do the same. The ones I like never tell their intentions and I’m usually taken advantage of so I just disappear.
They just want sex. People describe me as a kind person so they think that I’ll just say yes to their demands for sex and if I say no then the guilt trip me into it. I still haven’t been fooled though. Had a guy who tried to force me to date him because in his mind women have no rights to say no to a man. It got so bad that my dad got involved.
I don't ghost.
I find it a cowardly behavior.
I think it shows that the ghoster isn't in touch with their emotions and honest with themselves, let alone being honest with someone else when there is a conflict.
It's an absolute bullshit way to be.
Generally I don’t ghost people. If I’m not interested in them I just don’t talk to urgente/try not to give them hopes. On dating apps, it may happen I match someone I find nice but not mind blowing (I actually do a lot of selection but amongst my matches there are nice ones and very few mind blowing ones). I generally only write to the mind blowing ones. It may happen I answer to the ones who are “just” nice, and that I just don’t try to keep the conversation going. But I’d never do that with someone I met or someone I already made plans with, which is something that happens to me a lot (guys ghosting me after asking me out…)
Some men don't take rejection well. A guy literally stalked me and made my life a living hell when I rejected him gently. I never even led him on. That guy was obsessed with me. And yes, this shit actually happened. He was 16 as well. This happened over 2 months ago. Better to block him rather than being truthful.
It's definitely all 3 sometimes like guys love to create expectations out of nothing and think because I get around I'm just going to sleep with whoever i talk to 😕
Last one I ghosted was being needy, just talked to talk and it didn't have any value, it was just about nothing really, saying he is depressed, but I was going through something too at the time, so when I said I was feeling depressed too, he immediately dropped it and went to his random talking about nothing persona. Felt like the depression card was just played for attention seeking and I was not having it.
I would ghost a guy if: I don't want to be with him romantically or if I may be extremely interested in him, but he does not show how his intentions truly, if I think he's lying, I will avoid him. I would also ghost him if he ghosts me. I can be dying to spend time with him, but if he doesn't approach, what can I do?
I don't usually ghost men.
I usually tell them why I'm severing ties.
Unless they did something unforgivable.
Generally it's incompatibility, something they said/did that I can't get along with, or they demanded something of me I felt was too much to ask.
I'm a straightforward person, you know.
I don't mince my words.
Because either:
I've been telling you the issue and nothing is working.
You can't read the room.
You aren't doing your part.
So its time to dip without the drama.
I never ghost anyone, I straight up just tell them if I have a problem with them and then part ways. in my opinion ghosting is so childish and immature and makes that person come off as a child and like they can't handle adult situations
I've only ever ghosted one guy and it was because he got really, really intense and we weren't even a couple, just friends.
I don't really ghost, I always say I don't want contact anymore, only time they would not be worth my time and respect for that is if they have been deceitful/lying.. so maybe C is closest to that.
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