What makes it better when a girl suggests meeting first after chatting on a dating app?

[slimyWitch]

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6 mo

I mean why could it be better

[HawkPerception]

It shows clear interest. I like feeling desired as much as women do. If a girl suggests meeting, my immediate impression of them is really good. It shows they're not bound by the norms of society (in that a man should always be the one to initiate) and know what they want. It also shows they're comfortable enough to meet me when they initiate it themselves which makes me feel more comfortable around them in turn.

[Berethor]

It better because women tend to be unwilling, not men, a man likely want to meet anyway.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/A_Man_Is_Always_Eager

[Summeroflove]

Nah. I don’t know people on apps one of the reasons I avoid them

[AgentG111]

If she's comfortable enough to make that first move and suggested the meeting that means she's okay and possibly excited or wants to get eyes on or confirm that she is talking to Anna actual human.

[Staximus]

I think you're overthinking the situation and putting too much mustard on the hot dog

[YourExLover69]

It's always better and appreciable if a girl initiates/makes first move. 😊 I don't see any problem with it. Open minded, friendly and chatty girls always been my type.

[Sebastian100]

I prefer being friends first and then take it to the next level. I like to get to know the person first before I take the next step.

[serious]

If they both want to meet so fast then it is fine.

[Anonymous]

What do you mean what makes it better?

[slimyWitch]

You can suggest why it might be better

[Opinion Owner]

A guy has nothing to lose at that point other than some time and maybe the price of a few drinks.

[slimyWitch]

I mean, if a guy is up to something bad and is playing according to his own plan, you can ruin his plan and play according to your own.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not up to anything bad. Problem solved. But if she's gaming me, then like I said, only thing I'm losing is some time and a couple drinks. No skin off my nose.👍

[slimyWitch]

Or you don't lose, but gain a lot

[Opinion Owner]

You're not a guy on an online dating app. 95% of the women are losing proposition. Sorry you don't realize that. If you did you would understand most guys position towards online dating.

[Opinion Owner]

This is why you let her message you. There is still a possibility she ghosts you. But one would think if she establish contact she'd be serious.

[Awantika03]

Direct conversation necessary

[CubaPirate]

Because it a sign of her confidence

[hafinjun]

Feeds our egos