Men, do you want a woman to message you first after matching on Tinder?

[Anonymous]

It’s my first time using Tinder. I liked 2 accounts back, and I’m nervous about messaging them first. Sure they liked my account first, but I don’t want to look desperate. What are your thoughts?

Message them first.

Wait a few days and if they don’t message, unmatch.

[Anonymous]

I don't message first. IRL, yeah. But not online. Rules online are inverse to offline.

Women need to understand we know why you're there. So there's no reason to play it cool. Women also need to understand the sheer amount of female accounts (I say female accounts because a significant amount are just catfish accounts) that a guy has to deal with.

Be real, be honest, and do your homework and you'll be fine.

[Lynx122]

I'm fine with messaging first. It depends on how interested and responsive the woman is on how far the conversation goes though.

[HusamRocks]

Why using dating apps where people can fake themselves 🤔