Tinder is a cesspool for the most part, I'd do Bumble instead. The women there HAVE to send the first message, and I think especially on a dating app, there's something to making the woman have to make the first move because then she's talking to you because she wants to, not because you cajoled get into it. I'm a big supporter of women stepping up and making moves especially in a day and age where it seems like even the most basic and self absorbed females get loads of attention they probably don't deserve.
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Taking initiative has always been the man's characteristic and that won't change just because of politically correct equal rights. Because women can't have equal rights without equal responsibilities, and most people only want rights.
Women hint, men act.
I used to message first when I used Tinder. Some girls feel as though they need to be impressed, as if relationships aren't a two-way street.
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They do sometimes, but it's about being a man and stepping up to the plate and sending a message first. If you can't do that from the start it'll probably never work out because women want men who step up and take control.
If I ever read "I won't message first" I'll be like cool and simply move on to the next person. I like people who would stand up and get what they want and not wait for it to present itself on a golden plate.
Statistically, it's more like 18x as many matches. Sorry, I just like accurate math.
Because they have way more selection than we do and don't have to message first.
That's what tinder is for... Girls (as a generalization) don't like making the first move. So they want someone else to do so
Girls are more popular than men. Therefore popular people expect to be written first
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Because they think they should be attractive enough to not have to.
Girls think they are very interestingBecause we don't have to.
Don't hate the player. Hate the game.I agree though. Though resisting becoming cynical of digital dating scene.
You nailed it. But it's more economics... Supply & demand text book.
Because girls want men to give them some, and don't want to give of themselves. Narcissism...
i hear you. be careful many guys and girls want to only use you jot love you.
What's your bio like?
It's populated by typical girls
cause girls aren't expected to make the first move
They do if you're Alpha male like @Tony_1692
Because they don't have to
Because they aren't hoes.
Because girls are shallow.
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