Women how would you like to be approached in dating apps?

[Anonymous]

Often men are required to message first, and the conversation is dead before it even begins. How should we go about messaging first and how do we hold your attention?
When is it appropriate to ask for your number? Does anyone not call anymore? And why isn't saying hello ok?

[SueShe]

Dating apps are basically nothing more than hook up apps. We all know why people go on those sites. It is just to get into the pants of the ones you are targeting and when the deed is done, you drop them and forget them as if they never existed. It is just a place to increase your body count and list of victims.

Therefore, there is no need to be diplomatic about your intentions. Simply say what you want to do or have in mind with the victims and that should be enough.

A telephone number would obviously be a good start otherwise how will you hook up? It does not matter who gives it first since both of the parties are there for the sole purpose of fornicating.

[Abbycado]

No, don’t ask for a number right off the bat. Introduce yourself and what you are all about. Interests, likes, dislikes.

I will say that I don’t do dating apps.

[slatyb]

You comment on something in their written profile so that they know you actually read it and are interested in them in particular and not spamming every attractive woman on the site. That worked very well for me on match some years ago, almost too well. I probably should have spent some time being single but it never took me long to find someone interesting.

[Iron_Man]

They want the man to come up and talk to them

[Nikki1989]

Quality people don't need dating apps. If you are using one, that is all anyone needs to know to stay away.

[Anonymous]

Some of them would, some of them wouldn't.