Ladies and Gentlemen how would you like to be approached for a date?

[Justneedtokno]

In my experience guys don’t come up to me and I don’t go up to them. And if they wanna know me then they will.

I want to stop worrying about not be chosen.

In the mean time, I’m working on looking more open and available. In the meantime I’m working on myself volunteering working on a old house and my career and maybe looking into getting a side hustle.

[Guy13]

Perhaps, and I’m just guessing, the Reason no one approaches you is that your sole focus is on Me, Myself, and I.
-One working on things alone is not likely to be attractive to others, HOWEVER, sharing an idea or project that is mutually enjoyed Doubles your possibilities of Interest. Cool, sounds like fun, you guys (she) did that. Even, she’s freak…really, she thought I would like that, UGH

IS Coverage, Increases Probabilities of Interested Male etc…

Too many people involved and you get lost in group…

[Justneedtokno]

I think for me nowadays most people or women would like to have themselves establish first before giving themselves to someone else you don’t want them to think what she comes to the table with nothing but ass and right now there are no text that needs to be done with another person at this moment these are all self-improvement right now

[Anonymous]

Straight forward and no bull. When I know I'm attracted to someone I immediately go after them. If they reject, I say fair enough and lose attraction to those who aren't into me and try to approach me themselves

[Paul09]

Wait, you are unattrracted to a woman that approaches you?

[Jamie05rhs]

I think he left out some punctuation or words or something. I agree with you, @Paul09; something doesn't add up.

[Opinion Owner]

@Paul09 Sorry, I need to stop skipping English class. I should've said I lose attraction those who aren't into me, AND I also lose attraction to those who don't bother to try approaching me themselves

[Justneedtokno]

Wait explain that

[DizzyDesii]

Take the time to talk to me and get to know me anywhere from 10 mins to an hour (depending on if you’re free and If i show interest in return and dont brush you off). Then ask for my number to keep in touch. I’ll talk to them anywhere from a week to a month before agreeing to go on the date (if i feel we have things in common otherwise im wasting my time going out with them)

[fonduegirl]

Sure 😃

[Justneedtokno]

Lol The question is how do you want to be approached

[fonduegirl]

I realise that now

[fonduegirl]

I dunno, surprise me

[fonduegirl]

I'd like to be approached in a bookstore. If the guy suavely pays for a book I'm eyeing, I'd be heart eyes. That, if he doesn't expect anything back, like most do.

[Justneedtokno]

Well this is sweet

[fonduegirl]

Thanks

[TheSpaceGnome]

I would like to be approached by someone who I'm already best friends with.

This applies to any future best friends.

What i mean is, I currently don't have any friends I'd want to date, but the point is friends first, then best friends, then flirting, then dating (with dating being a commited relationship, not "going on a date", becuase going on a date is just an awkward experience that I want no part of, and I see it as a ineffective way to get to know someone, where as being friends with them first is way more effective).

An exception to this rule would be if approached on a dating site, but then all she has to do is be lewd or silly in chat, meanwhile her profile pics, and even moreso her bio's listed interests/hobbies/views, will decide how I respond to that.

[Justneedtokno]

I like that where you’re already familiar with the person. But it’s kinda hard to judge if they like you also

[ObscuredBeyond]

Her: "I hear that you're curious about me. And I think you're pretty cool too. I'm open on Wednesday if you are. How about we head to Barnes and Noble? Around 4? We can chat more then. Plus, we can look around, and use books to compare interests. Both get a better idea of where were coming from."

Me: "I'll see if I can free up my schedule! Can hardly wait!"

That would sell me very quickly.

[Lliam]

I never walked up to a random girl and asked for a date. We always knew each other, at least a bit, through friends or school or work. I've definitely asked women out and sometimes that turned into a relationship. I've had girls hit on me initially and had those turn into relationships, too.
I've also turned girls down and been turned down myself.

[Adam1978]

If you leave it up to them you are waiting to be chosen and if you do that you need to accept to not be chosen. First of all women have always put themselves near people they want so they can be picked. Not doing at least that is like almost removing yourself from the market. And if you do all the job to get close to the one you want to be picked by. Why not take the last step too?

[Justneedtokno]

I go out with friends and family. I’ve even been out by myself. That’s pretty much putting myself out there

[Anonymous]

I don't really 'approach', I just meet and talk to people. If a particular woman is attractive and shows interest, it might progress from there. But I never talk to women with the pre-planned intention of asking her for a date. That's also how I prefer women to approach me. I think most people feel like they've been put on the spot if you just walk up and start talking about dating

[pizzalovershouse]

Just learn to make small talk an learn what things interest them then tell them I'm going to something they like to do an say my friend has to work I need a plus one would you go

[Paul09]

Omfg I only dream of that day. I mean if we seem to connect, tell me straight forward,, I like you, you're cool, want to do something together sometime?

[Jamie05rhs]

I would like her to come up to me and say "Hey. I like you.". Just like that. Sweet and simple; no stress.

[Z1pTD]

“Do you wanna go out or nah?”
pretty chill not much pressure while also getting the job done

[FunkyMonkee]

I'd be perfectly fine with it as long as Allan Funt isn't h9iding off camera somewhere!

[magiusX26]

pretty straight forward and honest