Women, would you date a quiet guy?

[Anonymous]

I'm just wondering cause I'm a quiet and calm dude, I can keep conversations but usually most with people I know, for the most part I'm not saying much Im more of a listener, I just wanna know if it's a turn off, be honest, if so then it's whatever lol 🤔

[777GgG]

It's not the end of the world. I'm similar in that respect. I'll let someone carry a conversation until I'm comfortable with them.

But I will say the people who are willing to put in that effort because they can see your personality are amazing? Much better than the ones you have to try to overexert yourself to keep around. Some of my favorite people started out as people who had to carry the conversation and now they can't get me to shut up!

[Asker]

Yea I guess it makes sense, it would have to be an extrovert chick is what you are saying? 😂

[777GgG]

No necessarily.. that's one idea. Or someone who starts out as a friend. Or a girl who can see your personality and tell you're worth the effort.
Or you might meet someone who just makes you ramble like a lunatic from the get go 😊😊

[Asker]

I don't think people really give the chance without seeing some form of social benefit, like confidence or humor, good conversation, I dont think anyone really has interest if the person doesn't say anything lol

[777GgG]

Sometimes you get a vibe that make you want stick around. And it takes the right person (s) to see that. I'm kinda like that and I've met people who saw i was worth that effort and were willing to wait for me. I cherish them and fight for them.

[Asker]

That's refreshing, I don't see many people like that here but it's good to know they exist lol

[smashleyy]

Unlikely. I’m introverted and always seem to end up in relations with extroverted men. maybe it’s the whole opposites attract b. s but im typically quiet and reserved and I like a man that can bring me out of my comfort zone and engage in new things I probably otherwise wouldn’t do

[Asker]

You dont sound like an introvert, usually introverts dont want to step out of the zone but fair enough lol

[HermanL]

Hi Ashley, from right here, sorry to brake the news to you, but you look like a fantastic flamboyant women. Maybe your man wants to hear more from you? I certainly would bring you on adventure given that you can recount and retell how great life is, when I am with you. Keep shining! you are a jewel. H.

[Levin]

I doubt you're that quiet.

You probably just don't like bad conversations and you're around the wrong people.

Or maybe I should speak for myself.

When I vibe with a girl, the conversation is non-stop.

In general day to day activities, brevity and not talking too much is a good idea.

[HermanL]

Man, the problem is no quiet. Presence, is what matters, are you there when you are there? no joke. Look inside and tell me you have proud in your chest... women will come to you once you find that.

[Asker]

I have confidence but I'm not prideful

[Simslover92]

Yes I could. As long as we have good conversations, I wouldn't mind it.

[Asker]

Okay so convos are good to have, noted 😂

[Simslover92]

Lol yep 😂

[midnightmoon05]

I’m happily married…

if one is quiet lol

I’ll make them talk ahahaha!! And yes… it’s the case … I get them to talk and open up…

you have a lot of potential… you just don’t have a good woman to bring out the best of you… as to share your deepest thoughts and express your care and love for her.
honor and meet that woman!!

[midnightmoon05]

Go out and meet **

[Vevv123]

Why would that be a turn off 😂 anyways.. you describing yourself like this is adorable.. but misleading Mr. Lover boy. 🥹

[Asker]

I'm just a wondering osito 🧸

[Vevv123]

Alright I’ll support your self advertisement 😆👀.. quiet and calm and all that.

[Asker]

Okay good, I spent a lot of time on that advertisement 😂

[Vevv123]

Oh no.. and now you’re feeding into it 😆

[Asker]

I'm playing along 🧸

[MemeSupreme]

you probably wouldn't be quiet with someone you're dating lol

chemistry changes things

[Asker]

Depends on what date it is, first date or second day still seems new, but it's good to see you are still terrible at properly answering my questions 😂

[MemeSupreme]

BUT how is that terrible

if you got chemistry with someone and like them then you're gonna be talkative lol

[Asker]

Yea but thats not the point of the question momo, always avoiding questions aren't you 😂

[MemeSupreme]

stop trying to ragebait me chica

if he's quiet then he dies bc it means we dont get along

[Asker]

Aww momo is evolving, I will have to find new ways to ragebait you 😂

[sage2021]

I couldn't be with a quiet guy. I might as well be by myself.

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[Kenkebuttery]

Yeah. As long as he ain't quiet when we alone

[Asker]

Just staring like 👀

[Kenkebuttery]

Yeah. That's too much🤣

[Asker]

👀👀👀👀

[Kenkebuttery]

Stop it😭

[Asker]

👀👀💁🏾‍♀️👀👀

[Kenkebuttery]

Oh you so mean

[Asker]

Okay I'll stop, my digital eyes are burning 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

Good. They deserve to burn

[Asker]

How dare you wish heat apon my soul 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

It's what you get for making things very slightly uncomfortable

[Asker]

How do I know you aren't the one making things uncomfortable lol

[Kenkebuttery]

You the one throwing all those little eyes at me

[Asker]

Yea cause I have eyes on the back of my head 👀

[Kenkebuttery]

See. That weird and awkward. You walkin around wit eyes where not supposed to be

[Asker]

To be fair you wouldn't have noticed them if you didn't look at the back of my head, they are legit hidden in hair

[Kenkebuttery]

I noticed them cuz you threw them at me

[Asker]

Nope why would I expose my secret eyeballs

[Kenkebuttery]

Because you wanted to use them as vibrators on me

[Asker]

Actually I was just staring at you, you were the one that confused them for a female hysteria releaser 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

Well maybe you shouldn't have made me crave one wit dat dumb question

[Asker]

I thought you had one, what happened to it 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

I have many

[Asker]

So get to work tf 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

Naw. I'll wait. Maybe the real thing tonight if I'm lucky

[Asker]

Well best of luck at the club 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

thanks

[Beckybooboo]

Every guy I was ever attracted to was quiet. The guy I'm with now is somewhat quiet. I never liked the outgoing and boisterous type, it can be tiring being around them.

[Iron_Man]

Do you fall asleep a lot when on dates I would imagine quiet people are very laid-back and they get tired, easily

[Asker]

Nope I can actually stay up for a decent amount of time lol

[Iron_Man]

Good job

[douride2]

I have been on my own for so long quiet would be ok.

[Asker]

Well it's good to hear some women don't mind it

[Anonymous]

No. Because I’m also quiet, so then we would barely talk.

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[msc545]

Of course women would date somebody like this, as long as he is tall, rich, and good-looking.

[Asker]

Would just rich work? 😂

[msc545]

That would absolutely work if it was enough money. Something north of 500 million would probably do it.

[4ngelic]

yes, that's not a bad trait

[Asker]

😬💯

[Anonymous]

Most of them wouldn't (I'm quite so I know).