Do you like dating a man who has a strong personality but is under your control?

[Jleo2025]

[SueShe]

I don't date and have no plans to date because let's face it, what would it bring me in terms of intellectual advancement or motivation? Right, strictly nothing. In my opinion, there are only negative sides to dating, starting with having to "perform" when you don't feel like it, perhaps even to be coerced in doing what disgusts you such as oral sex and other deviant sexual practices.

I like people with strong personalities regardless of gender. I much prefer to converse with people that have a mind of their own but I would certainly never want to control anyone because I simply find it stupid to want to control others.

[HermanL]

Oh come on, admit it. You are scared. A man, if you chose carefully, will bring something in your life that you never thought possible. I'm not talking about babies. I mean you will feel needed and wanted. You should try it for spiritual advancement at least ;-) Take your time, but chose with your tommy, not your brain. Loveyou H.

[sage2021]

I learned the only person you control is yourself.

If you are controlling someone else, that's not really controlling it's trying to make them into someone they aren't and try to change them, which we all know that the only person you can change is yourself.

I don't want a weenie boy, but I do like the confident type without the control though. I'm not easy to control. But I can go with the flow.

Mutual respect is a must.

[Summeroflove]

It’s unhealthy to be completely under someone’s control. Especially early on… some people are very manipulative and may seem very good untik you’re under their thumb.

[guesswhereivebeen]

I don’t date guys … but my research shows that girls don’t really want a guy they control… the same as they don’t want a. Nice guy…

[Bitter_Sweet94]

I like a man with a strong personality, yes but not someone I need to “control.”

I’m more into a dynamic where he’s grounded in himself, I’m grounded in myself, and the balance just works.

Power plays don’t interest me.

Mutual respect does.

[VioletHaze]

Aren't those a little contradictory? I am not sure what you mean, but my gut says no. Id rather not have a partner under my control. That would just exacerbate some of my worse attributes. And Id like my partner to be the assertive kind.

[HermanL]

Great, you definitely know yourself well. What about a man who appreciate your love. Does that count in assertiveness? Take your time, choose well. H.

[Noredcarpet]

Why would you want anyone under your control? That means you're insecure. If someone has a strong personality that don't mean they shouldn't consider your needs etc.

[beenherebefore]

No, I don't want to be the dominant one in a relationship.

[HermanL]

You definitely have a lot of love in you. You must be a wonderful women. Remember you man must appreciate your love, yourself. And he will need you to appreciate his love, the one he can give. that is how this can work. Take your time, and choose well. H.
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[Zionne]

Most women don’t want a man they can control, they want a man who’s confident, grounded, and chooses them, not one who’s dominated. If a guy is “strong” but easily controlled, it usually reads as insecure, not attractive.

[Nikki1989]

No. Nobody should be under anyone's control to that extent.

[Anonymous]

And what exactly do you mean by “but is under your control”? Woman aren’t yours to control, SYBAU

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by strong personality?

[Anonymous]

Yes why not

[Bloodparadise]

Ew... no