Would you date a neighbor?

Question

Why or why wouldn't you.

I believe I would. Especially in today's dating world. If your able to build a friendly neighbor connection effortlessly.. I believe you'd be crazy not to take it further. Attraction proximity is a thing!

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I did once
It was very fun and convenient honestly

I’d be chilling at my place and she texts out of the blue asking me come over
Opens the door wearing nothing but a smile

But it didn’t last long

I gave her a massage that one night and right after she teared up and told me it was “too romantic” and that I should leave
So I did.

Still baffled me how all the sex we had was fine and dandy but one slow massage sent her over the edge of intimacy tolerance

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

I think so if looked like two adults. I never saw a neighbor I had any interest in. In fact, I was traumatized by some of them in early years. Could be fun or a disaster couldn't it?

It was a lot of fun dating my wife long distance... we could plan and do something fun and new adventures, then go back to our lives. We eventually came together and got married and worked through challenges and doing well, thank God and some effort!

A lot could go wrong, but you could make it right!

Bitter_Sweet94 · Accepted Answer

Yes, but carefully.

Proximity can make things easier and messier.

If the connection is genuine and both people are emotionally mature, it can work beautifully.

But if either person is inconsistent, dramatic, or unclear with intentions, dating a neighbor becomes a headache you can’t walk away from.

So I’d only do it if the foundation felt stable, not impulsive.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Sort of been there and don't want to go down that road again because if things don't work out, you have to see them bring a new s/o to their home and vice versa.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well yes. But people should date with intention of taking it further. It’s normal to become attracted to someone you’re around and get to know. It’s better then meeting someone random. Just casual sex causes issues

egan3141 · Answer

I'm actually trying to now. Kind of. She moved away to get her master's degree but is renting the place out. We stayed in contact and I've been trying to get closer to her in the event she moves back in and I can ask her out. I asked her out before she moved away but she said it was still too soon since her previous relationship and she wasn't interested in dating yet.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Depends on what their family is like. When you're dating someone it's not just them you're dating it's their family too.. they may hate you to death. If you get married they may even not attend the wedding. If you have kids they may disown the kids because they hate you. Be very careful with who you marry. It just might destroy your life and your kids lives. That's why my life is messed up. My grandmother married my grandfather her father disapproved. He disowned my father and treated him like complete garbage his entire life. His whole family hates him even his sister. So I'm disowned too. Everyone hates me even my own grandmother treats me like $hit. I don't exist to anyone. If I ingo near my grandmother my cousins will start beating on me and push me away from her. They constantly tell me she doesn't love me and to kill myself. I don't exist. I'll never get married or have children. I'll never put someone into this situation.

NathanDavis · Answer

technically... I kind of did one of my exes was the cousin to the family living next door to mine and so she lived with them for a bit while, so... my girlfriend was my neighbor too, lol

RavVid · Answer

Would depend a lot on her nature. If I thought her nice than probably. If I got weird crazy bitch vibes than I wouldn't want a scorned CB next door - seen the movies.

Beckybooboo · Answer

Sure but I never had any in my age range to date. I know people that dated neighbors.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

Not necessarily a bad idea. Though if something goes wrong it can become weird to see them every single day until one or both of you move away. Similar to dating coworkers in that sense I guess.

FreyaRed · Answer

Most of them are older men, I am not attracted to old men

LongLiveBillGates · Answer

I've dated and fucked neighbors before. If they're hot why not?

Nikki1989 · Answer

I did once, but it didn't last long. Me and her had very little in common.

Anonymous · Answer

If I were single, and she weren't a single mom, just a single woman, sure.

exitseven · Answer

okay, I married somebody who literally lived up the street.

douride2 · Answer

When I was younger I dated a neighbor or 2.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Yes if I find her attractive and interesting to make her my wife/girlfriend.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

If she wanted to be a traditional wife then yes

Staximus · Answer

I'd have to take the time to make sure she's not a psycho first

blackeagle007 · Answer

Never crossed my mind. I hardly talk to them anyway

ABC1x1x · Answer

In my Neighborhood "neighbor" is what we call N words. No I would not date a Neighbor unless she was very hot and sexy. But we wouldn't introduce her to my family

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, the last neighbor I wanted to date moved out a long time ago.

Claymond · Answer

Sure i will dat my neighbor if she the right one for me

LadyEvil · Answer

She moved in with me, and we lived in the same building.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

I've hooked up with them, I don't really date

bowenw · Answer

No reason not to.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes if I liked and trusted them enough.

WonderingManII · Answer

I would date a neighbor.

linka_pat307 · Answer

I would do so... it would be interesting

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Sure if she's got big boobs !!!

Kelly6 · Answer

@katebfun yes I would

msc545 · Answer

Yes - I have.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I want to ask my neighbor out actually

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Yes , easy to approach and communicate

AustColombiangirl · Answer

date no, let him use me for sex definitely

40andabellygoingon · Answer

Don’t shit where u eat

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, they are assholes

Evsisa · Answer

Yeah.

Clyde_123 · Answer

Nope.

Raydergman26 · Answer

Yes why not I have a crush on one of my neighbors

Twalli · Answer

Yeah

eagle1951 · Answer

yes!

Anonymous · Answer

No..

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