Would you ever date someone who lives in your building?

[coachTanthony]

[btbc92]

No. That is a means for a disaster and problems. That is very scary and not something I want to deal with. They tend to not work out. It is no different than being at school, work, etc. You're TOO CLOSE. And that can tear you apart. It's supposed to be your own space. Not a room within a building.

[razelove]

No, granted I've only ever lived in one apartment complex that had more than 4 units. I did sleep with my next door neighbor before and that was a mistake. There just isn't any getting away until one party moves.

Turned out she had a growing problem with the pills as well, so getting a knock on the door at 2 AM from someone horny and nodding out was super pleasant. Also having to draw down on one of her junky friends because I thought he was trying to steal my car, but honestly thought it was a silver SUV (honda accord, blue), he got into his car with some tender guidance and ran straight into a light post down the road.

Anyway, lesson learned, don't date neighbors, don't date co-workers.

[Jjpayne]

I don't see why not, movies and tv shows totally have that as romance

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well currently live in a house so N/A but if I did liver in an apartment building, that's doubtful. They'd have to live on another floor or way across a big building...

[coachTanthony]

LOL well looks like your answer would be YES

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No said doubtful I would

[coachTanthony]

But If I live on the first floor and you live in the penthouse "as you would" lol then it's a go?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well maybe 🤷🏼‍♀️ lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Unless you saying me JUST BECAUSE I live in the penthouse🤣I ain't no sugar momma lolol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*dating

[coachTanthony]

Damn it.. take me to Burger King LOL

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Okay that I'll do but you gotta order from the dollar menu🤣 funny you said burger king.. Just went there with my neighbor today and yep I treated her cuz she took me to run my errands

[coachTanthony]

That dollar menu ain't going to cut it.. I am sorry. I need at least a whopper meal !

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Alright I guess🙄

[coachTanthony]

Bahahahahhaahahahhahahaa that is a great sign of an awesome sugar mama ha.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

LOLOLOL

[yofuknutz]

U2 get a room!

[Jamie05rhs]

A Whopper is 2 dollars and fifty cents, you know.

[coachTanthony]

@Jamie05rhs I want the whopper happy meal.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Jamie05rhs me and a neighbor just had Burger king Thursday Two ultimate whoppers and two onion rings and the total was $12

[Jamie05rhs]

@coachTanthony lol.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Brainsbeforebeauty You're doing it wrong. ;)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Jamie05rhs Now what am I doing wrong🤷🏼‍♀️ lololol

[Jamie05rhs]

@Brainsbeforebeauty

1. Go to the grocery store.
2. Buy a 2-liter drink ($1)
3. Buy a bag of chips. ($2)
4. Go to Burger King.
5. Get the BoGo burger deal.
6. Ask for two free cups of ice. (They are nice. They will give them to you.)

Voila!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Jamie05rhs Well thanks... I usually take don't even get fast food. I treated my neighbor because she took me to do my errands and I knew she wouldn't accept gas money, but she would never turn down a burger🤣🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome. :)

[Account]

Probably not since it would bit me in the ass if we broke up. My last relationship taught me that people can be quite stalker-ish.

[flamiE]

Yessss. I’ll be dropping them food and it’ll be still hot, no need to reheat. Dates would be wayyy easier. I can be horny and be taken care of within minutes. An absolute dream 😁 it’s like living together but without having to deal with all the stress that comes with living with someone without knowing them well. Also it’d be easier to move in with them 😁 just YES YES YES.

[menina]

NO, NO and NO. If we are considering the building where I live now, I certainly wouldn't date someone who lives here.
However, if we are talking about another building, in a decent country I still wouldn't date them. We would be too close and when we broke up I would have to see my ex everyday and of course that wouldn't be good.

[lilyanony1]

In the current building I live in. Hell no!
They are all in a relationship.
Now since I'm the only single female in the building with a job. That's a no. The one guy that lives alone pays for services according to rumour from the woman that lives on the ground floor, her partner is supposedly her pimp as men come in and out of her property in frequently.
I didn't live In the ghetto until they moved in and its completely changed the vibe here.

[Kabluie]

I've done it. I was junior in college and there was this new grad student that lived across from me. I remember how attracted I was when I first saw her, blonde and freckles. I think we first met in passing seeing each other come home. One weekend I decided to knock on her door to get to know her better.

She did not let me in her apartment, we just hung out and talked in the doorway for probably an hour or so. I didn't think too much of but it turned out we had fun things in-common and I made subtle hints of us going out later. It did work, we went to food and clubbing next week, and this time I let her into my bed for sex. She was a darling, it kind of happened fast but the convenience of living across from each other was fun, we'd have dinner together every few nights with each other's roommates, played games, went out together and such.

[Bellatris]

Wouldn't that be the best type of person to date, because you would have both your own personal space still, but you'd still be able to see each other whenever you desired each other's company? I think it would be an ideal situation.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's one way of looking at it! Good point!

[modelUN242]

I live with my family so umm, in my neighborhood? Probably... but I'm already dating someone now.

However, I always had this fantasy if I lived in a condo or apartment, and the guy next door would strike up a conversation loll.

[MsTaniaUncensored]

Good question!

I don't know. Depends on how much I love it there. It would be a bit weird to have very little distance in a new relationship. I would have to be super into him for that to be a thing.

[Paolaa988]

Haha coach T I wish I had a cute boy 18-20 who lives near me. Thanks a lot for making me wish🥲. Yes I would as long as we keep it on the down low because some people in the neighborhood can’t be trusted.

[ChrisMaster69]

There me and the neighbours cat..

sorry there’s just me, the cat just read this question, gave me the fingers and left through the window.

looks like it’s not the dating type, I have that affect on pussy.

[CrazyGirl2]

Oooh 😮. Wow, that’s a tough one. I mean it could me the love of your life, but if it ends badly… your kinda stuck with eachother! That really is a tough one!

[DizzyDesii]

Thats ideal honestly. I want to live near eachother but not together until we’re at least engaged. So this would be super perfect cause we still get our own space yet are so close to one another

[BillHe1]

Probably not. It might be fun for awhile, your apt? or mine?
But if there were others recently dated that you each might have seen coming and going; if might be hard to work into a new relationship.

[FreyaRed]

No. It's the same reason why I wouldn't date anyone from my work. If it doesn't work out, seeing that person often wouldn't be a pleasure

[she_asks_and_answers]

I wouldn’t mind. Just we have to agree not to make things weird if we ever broke up.

[CurlyGirl42]

No, been there done that. Ended with me moving and I hate moving xD

[Jamie05rhs]

That's a very interesting question! I met a girl once who lived at my apartment complex (but in a different building). She seemed nice and friendly, and she said that she hoped she would see me around. But I never saw her again after that. But it was my fault because I never came "around.". I just stayed in my apartment the whole time. I guess I'm just too shy.

[SphynxUK]

I live in a house.
But I did say no to a guy that lived in the flat next to mine. 😅

[devilish-cutie]

Ofc, location where they live isn't a dealbreaker lol
Not even if its ltr

[Synikal]

Yea. Dated women who lived on the other side of the town or further. Saves gas. Easier to surprise with gifts. There when needed. When I get bored working at home I can go elsewhere to terrorize someone else.