Do you think he likes me?

[Anonymous]

I met with this guy almost 2 months ago and I can’t forget him and I’m not an obsessive type. I’m 23 years old and he’s 19. We just met to be fuck buddies but he turned out to be a shy and sweet guy. He barely looked at my face during the date, he smiled very big whenever we made eye contact, he talked about how much he cares about his family, and he wants to be a father. He asked me questions like how many kids do you want and asked me a lot of things about me. we talked about what we want in the future and all sort of things I never expected to talk to him. When I first saw him I felt like I found my soulmate, the man of my life and I never feel these kinda stuff. Later he told me he wants to spend time with me but he’s failing his classes in med school, he’s kinda in panic mood and he’s not sure if he can have anything with me. I told him we don’t have to have anything other than sex and he said he’s not ready for sex, and he made a shy smile. I need a man perspective. Ps. He’s European, so we are not coming from cultures that people are very shy about these kinda stuff and he was very flirty when texting. I’m thinking of messaging him sometime after some months because I really really like him

[Anonymous]

You really like him but the feeling isn’t mutual. He isn’t offering any sort of romantic relationship so I don't know why you’d save space for him in your heart and plan to go back in a few months. You make yourself look desperate.

[Staximus]

If you want a good guy to value you, the last thing you should be doing is meeting up to have sex with strangers from online. That's what prostitutes do and it's not safe

[Asker]

Take your opinion and put in your a.. when a man meets a girl to fuck he’s normal and girls are prostitutes? I’m not earning money from sex, you have no right to write me such a thing. It’s my body and my choice

[Staximus]

No, the man is just as bad.

[Asker]

Welcome to earth. We are fucking with random people just because we don’t want anything more than that. That doesn’t make people prostitutes

[Staximus]

Don't act like a slut if you want a man to value you. It's that simple.

[Twalli]

If you like him as more than a fuck buddy, talk to him about it. I would reiterate that you're fine if it remains purely sexual, but you are thinking there's more there, and if he feels the same, you'd like to explore it.