Which thing do girls like better? An average guy who listens and talks about his feelings or a fit guy who’s funny but doesn’t listen or talk much?

[Curiousboy01]

[DishLady]

I've always gone for the (very slightly above) average looking guy bc I'd rather be with someone I can talk to than with some show pony with abs. (I LIKE the abs, mind you, but if I had to choose, it's mind over body every time.)

[This_is_me_86]

Average guy who can make you laugh. Also to have a conversation

[slatyb]

Not listening is or should be a deal breaker. In my experience dating, that's what women crave the most -- a man who really listens and cares.

[genericname85]

doesn't matter as long as he's 6 feet tall or taller.