Do girls like a quiet dude or a fun, goofy, and energetic dude?

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So I'm really goofy and fun and energetic and honestly a bit loud too :/ but I'm super friendly too and get along with virtually everyone (unless they're just a douche). but I have a hard time getting girls. don't tell me that maybe its because of my physical attraction because one, girls have said I'm kinda cute and I'm strong and muscular too. weigh 155, bench 235 and squat 270. I'm also very intelligent too. ton of people have said I'm really smart. but my friends say that its because I'm too loud and goofy and stuff and I need to chill out a bit. Is that really the reason? Girls please help me out :)

RebelOfNowhere · Accepted Answer

I like a mix...I love someone who prefers silence at times, because there are many times when I don't like talking and I just want to sit around and cuddle or read...but there are times when I want to go out and laugh and stuff.

If I were at a party, I'd be more attracted to a guy at the punch bowl who is talking to only one other person, or is maybe even by himself. Id never approach or even think of talking to the guy who is the center of attention, partly because I hate attention myself and partly because I feel like I'd have to compete with other people to talk to him all the time. I'm not a very social person, and to be honest, social people make me nervous d: most people aren't so like me though, so

tomfeltonforever · Accepted Answer

I like fun guys. Which is weird because my boyfriend is way more of the quiet type. I deal with it because there are other things about him that I love a lot. What I'm saying is, this fun/quiet thing may not be a deal breaker... Depending on how loud or quiet the guy is (I wouldn't go for someone really, really loud and attention seeking or someone who's cripplingly shy). I'm pretty sure almost any girl likes a guy who knows when to be fun and when to be peaceful.

LiveYoungLiveFree69 · Accepted Answer

I love the loud ones, they're always the most fun! What kind of girls do you go for? Maybe you're going for quiet girls who might be too reserved to feel comfortable around a guy like you.  Find the ones that are also energetic and I'm sure you'll be fine! Do you flirt enough? That might be another reason.  Maybe you aren't clear with your flirting and they don't realize you're into them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you're fun and goofy, you're probably a clown. Girls want someone fun and goofy, but someone who cane also make them feel sexually turned on. Do you find girls become interested in you, but never go further than being friends or just wanting to be around for entertainment? Then you probably need to learn how to  exude more sexual masculinity and other things that trigger their attraction. Id recommend checking this book out if you need some guidence:

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know from experience, I always had girls chasing me when I was extroverted and a complete goof. Then a few years later, I ended becoming introverted and very quiet, and barely had any girls after me, just a few who stayed distant and waiting for me to approach.

So I'd say they want the extroverted guy. But you also have to know how to be serious chill.

RedSmartie · Answer

I'm an extrovert and I prefer someone who is in the middle.  Someone who can be chill and relaxed at times and energetic at others.  I need someone who can calm me down every once in a while but can also have fun.

jayb0493 · Answer

I love fun goofy guys AS LONG as they know when to shut up and be respectful/quiet. and as long as they're not over the top and just annoying as hell. I am also really giddy and crazy most of the time but can be quiet when I need to be :)

TattedBeautyInk · Answer

i like B, the most. but once we hang out and he's really comfortable around me, then definitely like A to come out ;)

Fascalia · Answer

Girls love guys who are goofy and fun. It ensures that no matter what, you will have a good time with him. But you also have to be sure to strike a balance between your fun side and your more serious side. If you are too goofy, girls might perceive you more as their super fun friend rather than a guy she would be interested in dating. If there is a girl who you are interested in, try spending some time alone with her, while toning down the goofy just a little bit and see what happens.

rakayln · Answer

I go for type A. Just as long as the guy isn't so over the top that he is annoying. I'm more quiet and layed back so I look for a guy that can add some energy and balance the relationship:)

Peppo · Answer

Adjust your "level of loudness" to where you meet the girl.

Usually, shy girls like fun and goofy guys. Don't lose this energy for their sake. But also know your limits, where goofiness should stop for "chill" to come in. Otherwise, relationships will be hard for you to find.

confugirl · Answer

The quiet guy. He doesn't spill all his secrets during the first interaction and he keeps me intrigued. Plus I can relate to him better.

-citygirl · Answer

It doesn't matter to me lol, if I like a guy I like him! :D  I've liked quiet guys, but also loud guys so

JanuaryX · Answer

I lilke it "B", but when we're alone he'd become an "A". lol

heavyicebox · Answer

A balanced mixture of both A and B would be really awesome! Love big guys with good sense of humour and stay true with himself ;)

TheGodEmperorLeto · Answer

Bets on them liking the goofy/fun dood. I mean, who doesn't like having fun. But I think the quiet and chill dood can have fun too :\

Anonymous · Answer

I like the goofy type because that type of guy makes me feel more comfortable like I don't have to worry about making a fool of myself and just have fun.

Anonymous · Answer

I've liked quiet guys before and I've liked fun, goofy, energetic guys before as well. I go for all types of men, usually for different reasons :-)

tiredofwaiting · Answer

Since I am a loud girl my best bet is to find a quiet/laidback kind of a guy.

Alexias · Answer

I would like both A and B, but more A than B.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm both

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