What are some things about a partner's past that you would actually care about?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Like previous work experience, estranged from family, criminal record, education, etc

[Gobbyjobby52]

Criminal record would be worrying depending on when she committed the crime and the severity like if she stole a box of chocolates at 12 I wouldn't care all that much but if she was like the female jimmy Saville yeah that would be pretty fucking awful and unforgivable. Sometimes families can be toxic and dysfunctional for some people so unless she is calling her parents cunt for no reason I see no reason to hold it against her. Not everyone is meant for the books and as unpopular as this might sound as a man I hope to be the centre piece of the financial accumulation in so unless she doesn't do anything (not saying she can't have a job) then i wouldn't care. If she's unstable i probably won't touch her with a bar pole.

[live2dance25]

Criminal history, drug/substance abuse, any active STDs, and warrants for arrest. Everything else can be explained as we get to know each other.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I would care about most of it.
It all has shaped them into who they are now, and some of it also explains why they are who they are.

It of course also matters how they've reflected on what has happened.

[Nikki1989]

I would hope he has some life experience behind him. Nothing is worse than a virgin who has acheived nothing.

[Jammannn]

That’s a weird way to define life experience. The lower your body count as a women statisically you have much better chances of finding the "one".

[sage2021]

If he has anger 🤬 issues and gets physically abusive.

[CherryLove007]

I agree totally Sage and being near any mean man is the worst.

[sage2021]

@CherryLovr007
I hear you!! It's pretty scary when they start yelling and won't stop 🛑 it hurts 🤕 my ears.

[Miristheiss]

Sex with someone she isn't married to.

Piercings, tattoos, heavy drinking, obsessed with posting online, no virtue, low character.

[Fireguy17]

family dynamics, how they treated animals, drug/alcohol addiction, smoking, changes in their personality

[guesswhereivebeen]

I don’t mind a record… or even a few trips to the nut house.. I care about 1: did she used to be. A man and 2: does she got any shit that’s gonna make my dick Roy off

[Staximus]

If she was a hard drug addict, has a criminal record, has been placed under the care of a psychiatric facility, etc

[Coden7]

Criminal history, drug/substance abuse, and financial habits

[Brady]

Estranged from family, criminal record, if their nice, honest n we're compatible.

[jahaims]

All of it obviously. Someone's past tells you their character

[Anonymous]

I just hope that she is not a religious freak, or that she doesn't have any STDs... the rest is less important from my point of view.

[Anonymous]

Does she have children
Is she educated
Good family

[queenofcardio]

Criminal record.

[NathanDavis]

everything? I care about them... lol

[itsannalee]

Education and their family tree.

[exitseven]

Prison. Drug Use , are they a liberal.

[Bloodparadise]

I already know about my partner's past

[loveyouoak]

Zero body count.

[guesswhereivebeen]

Do they still make those?