How do men like to be earned back after an argument?

[DreamCrescent]

No one is upset with me right now, it’s a prophylactic question… in or after an argument, is space all that it’s hyped up to be. What do men prefer? “I’m sorry, please forgive me” straightaway? or wait for him to come to me? or keep discussing while tensions are high to resolve the issue

[ohsheeT]

Depending what it's all about if he wrong then sit down and understand he's gonna come at your full blast , because he's either caught or he knows he was stupid , so he's gonna be blowing up

Let him blow be very, very quiet, very calm and let him explain his way. Tell you his way lie his way cheat his way because it's all gonna come out if you be quiet, shake your head, yes or no say I see. You've already won the battle in the calmer. You are the more control you have of yourself. You will always win the battle , no matter what it's about

But you have to be disciplined, you have to look at the bigger picture already knows that you're right, and all he's gonna do is talk. He's gonna tell you the truth at the same time. He's lying to you that you have to be patient , calm and quiet. No matter if he's wrong or right

[slatyb]

"earned back" -- what sort of arguments are you having? If you are disparaging your partner's personality when arguing, stop. Never say things like "you never" or "you always". Instead say "When you..., I felt..."

[DreamCrescent]

i’m actually not having arguments so yeay me lol. it’s going all fine right now

i saw some relationship guy on youtube saying that guys retreat after an argument and a call pleading that you want him will just make it all better. the advice sounded… sus?

[slatyb]

Yeah, don't watch any more of his videos. There are better videos from licensed therapists.

[live2dance25]

Wait until he’s in a better head space then try to have a level headed conversation then.

[DreamCrescent]

good idea to wait or deal with things while the stakes are high?

[bowenw]

Keep discussing like adults if possible. If not, cool off before trying to resolve the problem. Apologize as soon as possible if you did something wrong.

[Shiprex]

When he comes back to you then you show contrition and apologise

[DreamCrescent]

So wait for him to blow off steam and come back on his own?

Show contrition how?

[Shiprex]

Merry Christmas sorry I missed your reply @DreamCrescent
I went with your idea of earning him back so offering to do something especially out of your comfort zone that he might like whether intimately or socially it's your choice

[Ariesman81]

Titties... stop every argument with titties. Before, during or after... titties

[DreamCrescent]

jeez louise

[Ariesman81]

Stop making shit complicated

[krin_m]

I prefer to resolve the issue, but as quickly as possible. Also a sincere apology from the offending party (no matter who it is) works.

[DreamCrescent]

while tensions and emotions are a bit rugged?

[krin_m]

Probably not when the emotions are very raw. But as soon as possible. It is a fine line to walk, for sure!

[dudeinohio]

Wait until he's had time to process the incident and comes back to where you are.

[msc545]

Try real hard not to start the problem in the first place.

[DreamCrescent]

thank you. thank you

if only we were all in a george clooney and amal alamuddin relationship

[NathanDavis]

depends...