Ladies: Do you prefer a man tells you the time and place to be or when he'll pick you up, or would you prefer you both agree on a place and get there?

[HawkPerception]

I prefer a man tells me the time and place to be or when he'll pick me up

I'd prefer we both talk about and agree on a place and get there ourselves

[Summeroflove]

All women are different but as a man I’ll give you my own personal perceptive. I don’t mind to surprise a woman sometimes. If we been on dates already sometimes it’s fun to do something new or that someone else likes. Maybe someone hates it…. But at least you tried.

But I’m not into mind reading games… I’ve seen women say “pick something” and then when you do proceed to BITCH about it. That’s not worth my time.

But everyone’s different… I can pick a time and place…. Either she will say yes or maybe she wants a different time or do something else. I’m a adult so is she…. Be direct. Be honest.

[DishLady]

You know me. I like the guy to be the guy. "I'll pick you up at 8. Do you like Thai? I know a place." is the perfect way to rack things up for a successful night out.

[queenofcardio]

First date , we meet there. It is very attractive when a man plans. Very hot 🔥 🥵

[RandomQuestionAsker]

I'm the type of girl to have to dress up and stuff for an hour or more before going out, i also usually already have a set of things scheduled for a certain day, so if it was sudden/a surprise i would really dislike it. (that's just me personally) But I think having the two decide together is the better choice and would be more successful with most girls, since you don't know if they already planned something or not, it's always safer to plan together.

[HawkPerception]

I prefer it that way too.