Would you let your 18yr olds boyfriend/girlfriend do sleep overs?

[lightbulb27]

They are dating seriously, committed and you like what you see of the two.

Would you let them sleep over, with appropriate rules?

Yes with clear rules

No, not until engaged or married

No never

Other

[Zack-Bann]

Honestly at 18 it shouldn’t even be called a “sleepover”


That being said if my kid is still living with me I will have rules


Not because I disapprove of the relationship but because it sets the standard for any future interaction I will have with the boyfriend/girlfriend


If that person feels so powerful to have sex with my child under my roof with me in the other room there’s no telling what boundaries will later be crossed


And yes, I will be harsher on my daughter’s boyfriend compared to my son’s girlfriend.
Sounds unfair but I believe everything is owed a specific treatment

[Nikki1989]

18, seriously?

I crossed that bridge by the time I was 12. So did most people I grew up with.

[RxR0954]

I’d be cool with it, unless if their boyfriend/girlfriend is a disrespectful asshole

[Zionne]

yes, as long as its with his guy friends.

[beefcakebradybatson]

In separate rooms.