Is it true that girls fall in love when you treat them badly?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Not genuine love no. People who like toxic relationships are generally very toxic people themselves. You will both eventually become very miserable in the end. But feed off toxicity and drama. Until it gets old… and stale. And eventually they are bored no matter what they can stir up. And will probably cheat. And leave.

[Zionne]

Not really — “treating someone badly” isn’t what makes people fall in love. What often happens is that people confuse chasing, unpredictability, or emotional push-and-pull with attraction. Learning how to create genuine connection, confidence, and emotional tension in a healthy way is what actually makes women interested — and that’s something you can get guidance on in a solid dating program for men.

[DishLady]

No, it's not. Such thoughts perpetuate abusive relationships.

[Jackblue]

Probably not for the most part, I think that misunderstanding comes from the fact that women are reluctant to date a man who is too clingy or doesn't seem to have a life of his own. This doesn't mean they want a man to treat them badly it just means they don't want a guy who is desperate.

[rachel776]

@Jackblue very good advice

[Jackblue]

@rachel776 Thanks

[Zack-Bann]

Not “badly”
Many girls enjoy a man who’s rough but always in a “charming” way
Even toxic guys who always have girlfriends typically compensate by being a certain kind of way with her


If you’re a good guy, just forcing yourself to insult a woman or berate her won’t make her like you


What you need is boundaries and self esteem
And then you deal with her according to your own values
That’s what’ll keep her hooked

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be that black and white about it but, yeah kinda.

I'd say more accurately it comes down to his self respect. A woman is not attracted to a guy who puts up with her bull💩. When a guy doesn't kiss her ass it means he stands on business. It means he'll stand up for himself as well as her when needed.

[Nikki1989]

Delusional incel bullshit, and you will find that 90% of men that come out with this nonsense are hopelessly single and are likely to remain so... for the obvious reasons.

[petitedollbabee]

Not even slightly. Go ahead and test that theory though, what could go wrong.

[CaptainSmartass]

I'm gonna say "no"...

Simples...

[WellBye]

Incel propaganda

[HollyK21]

Ding ding ding👏

[Little_Bumblebee]

... why would you even want that?

[DryGermanGuy]

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[In_Trance]

Fuck around and find out

[Anonymous]

No it’s not.