Do you think its transphobic if someone is not attracted to trans men/women?

[Razberry_pumpkin]

I am just asking this question because first off, I am straight and not into women what so ever. Secondly, in high school, I had a trans women write me a note saying he was interested in me and to be fair, I wasn't interested in him. When I start dating, I want to date a biological man who didn't transition. I've heard some trans people its transphobic if a cis person doesn't wanna date them. I think thats a stupid statement. And get mad at me if you want to but how I see transwomen (same with trans men) is they are just men pretending to be women and are just men in dresses. I don't see transwomen as real women and I don't see transmen as real men. So what do you think, is it transphobic if someone isn't into someone thats trans?

[FunkyMonkee]

No, it's transphobic if you hate trans people and treat them like shit!!
Being trans ISN'T just a guy pretending to be a woman! That's a drag queen!!
When a woman gets pregnant, for the first 3 months, the baby is a female! After the third month, the hormones kick in and start changing that baby into a boy if the hormones say it's gonna be a boy or, they stay the same if it's gonna be a girl. SOMETIMES, the male hormones don't turn on strong enough or the females don't turn off enough and when the boy baby is born, it still as a good bit of the female hormones and that make the brain of the baby feel like it's supposed to be a girl but it's stuck in a boy's body. THAT'S why people get sex changes. all they're trying to do is fix the mistake nature made. And I suspect it has a LOT to do with the chemicals and shit the government keeps dumping into our water, air and food!!
80 years ago, there was only ONE person that wanted and got a sex change!! The next (that I know of) was Christine Jorgenson in the late `60's or early `70's. Then Walter/Wendy Carlos a few years later. Now, EVERYBODY wants one!!!

[Zack-Bann]

Dating preferences and prejudices are never to be confused with one another
Even if sometimes it feels that way.


And the misuse of the term “phobic” is a common tactic used by woke mobs to insinuate that the people who disagree with them are actually afraid of them


It’s not fear of a trans person that makes someone disregard their mental delusions


And as long as we’re not perpetuating any violence towards them our opinions should be of no consequence


And our personal dating preferences aren’t there to please anyone else.
They’re personal

[Anonymous]

I’m not transphobic. It’s called being heterosexual. I was born female and I wouldn’t date a trans man. It’s not because they are trans. It’s because I don’t want to date somebody who was born the same sex as me. Humans cannot change sexes.

[Razberry_pumpkin]

I agree. Good answer

[Opinion Owner]

Trans men are female and trans women are male and that cannot change.

[Razberry_pumpkin]

Exactly. People who think people can change their gender are stupid

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Not wanting to date a trans woman/man is not transphobic.

Calling them by their birth sex and saying they are pretending to be their selected gender IS transphobic and based on your language here, I'd say you probably are.

[Razberry_pumpkin]

Well it’s true. No one can change their sex no matter what they do. End of story

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Sex and gender are two different things. No, they can't change their sex and I don't think that's what they are claiming. They are changing their assigned gender at birth because it is not congruent to how they feel.

Would you deny someone with depression any medication because it's not what they are supposed to be which is depressed? Are you saying that people should not wear glasses because they are meant to have poor vision?

It's no different for trans people. They are just trying to change how society sees them and live a life that is in line with how they see themselves.

[Razberry_pumpkin]

I never said anything about gender lol. And in my opinion, trans people are mentally ill

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You are entitled to your opinion of course and I am willing to bet they feel the sane about you and others who show the level of hate you have towards a marginalized group of people by either calling them mentally ill or just plain being transphobic in general.

It really is no different than calling us mentally ill for being gay.

[Summeroflove]

No…. Not attracted to the same sex lol.

[sawno]

Nope,. why would we be attracted to that? They are the original gender biologically but cosmetically altered to look a certain way. Its not the same thing at all, and I am not going to be guilted into thinking that. The hard truth is that nobody sees them as the gender they claim to be, they all just play along out of politeness or because they agree they should be seen that way. But nobody would ever consider them identical to that gender and in dating preferences there is no denying reality that people then don't want to date them because of that unless they happen to be in to it.

[sawno]

I have some imprecise speech there, because some will see them as that gender mentally. I mean nobody sees them as that biological sex.

[HighValue]

No. Almost anything with "phobic" attached anymore is just some immoral person trying to coerce another person into accepting their often disgusting behavior/beliefs.

Also, only a liar and/or moron would think it is wrong to state a fact. (Calling someone by their birth gender.) There are only two genders. Anyone that thinks otherwise is mentally ill. They are the kind of people that think men can get pregnant, that women are as strong as men, and they are often too dumb to realize that their own alphabet acronym LGBTQ+ admits there are only two genders with the third letter. lol Like I said, morons.

[Berethor]

You not only don't date them, you also say that transwomen are men, so yea you might be transphobic, but who cares? I don't want to date a transwoman, and I don't care being called transphobic.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/8zevhRN5lHI

[Razberry_pumpkin]

I don’t care about being called transphobic either lol but I’m gonna watch that video your sent. Thanks

[Berethor]

Good to hear that, hope you would enjoy the video, here is another one you might like.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sObPHx2QMY0

[Razberry_pumpkin]

Omg the second video you sent me was crazy. I’ve never heard of someone claim they were born another species

[Berethor]

Well if a guy can claim that he a girl then why a girl can't claim that she is a cat. :)

[Razberry_pumpkin]

True but that’s just strange to say your another species when everyone is human

[David318578]

There is nothing transphobic about living in reality, trans woman are not real woman, and a trans man is not a real man. Thats the reality of life.

You want a real man, not a hybrid thats called being normal.

Now i believe in freedom, so if a guy wants to get a boob job and live his life like a woman then more power to him, I don't care at all. Its his life and as long as he is an adult then he should be free to make that decision

[Twalli]

If they have a penis, they're a guy and vice versa. I know it isn't a real one if they are trans and it doesn't cum or anything, but cisgender guys sometimes get prosthetic penises, so it counts. I honestly wouldn't care if the person is trans, if they've fully transitioned. From porn, some trans girls who still have penises are really hot and have nice boobs. If they got rid of their penis and went fully female, I wouldn't turn them down if they asked me out.

[Phoenix98]

No and it's stupid for people to even make that argument.

[AngryCarl2]

No, that's definitively wrong. Transphobia means active fear or revulsion.

[beefcakebradybatson]

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[Staximus]

Being normal is not transphobic

[dudeinohio]

No it is not. It is simply a preference.

[Anonymous]

Nope. It just means they're not gay.

[beenherebefore]

No, it's not.

[Zionne]

nope

[Pterodon]

Nope