I am a tall girl (statuesque) and I feel like most people are intimidated by my height. Does being tall change your 'aura?

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FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Don't know. I don't think so. At least not mine! I'm 6' 9". About 2 years ago, I was at Aldi and bumped into a girl that looked to be 8' tall!! I just said hello to her and kept shopping. She, however, said not a word to me! Exactly what I get from most people around here!! The friendliest city!! The city with a smile on its face!! BULLLLLLSHIT!!! The city that ignores the fuck out of you, is more like it!!!
I got a job working at Cedar Point in `78 and made more friends there in one day than I make here in several months!!! When I came home at the end of the summer I carried that eternal friendliness with me, never even knowing that I even HAD IT, now and treated everyone around me the same way as I did there and I couldn't BELIEVE how fucking RUDE most people here are!!! I never noticed it before!!! To this day, I'm still trying to be friendly with strangers and they still act like I walked up to them and said I wanted to rape their dog!!! Maybe I'd make more friends if I DID say that!!

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

I don't know if it changes your aura, because you wouldn't know what it would be if you were not taller. I do think a lot of people are somewhat maybe taken aback by tall women, especially if we're talking ones who are 6 feet or taller.

I personally love the hell out of Amazonian women, they are super hot and carry a kind of chivalrous aura to me.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I think that it's unusual for a woman to naturally be 6 feet tall or taller. I've only met one and that was in the 80's. Her husband was about 5'9", and I don't think they made a good match looks wise.
I think 🤔 it probably does change your aura. After all, think about how practically other women are shorter than you.
I felt very uncomfortable around the one I met - like I knew that we could never be friends.
It's not so bad if you are with a guy who is taller than you. That's great! 👍🏼

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Nope. Your aura is your aura. So people see you differently? Perhaps, but are those the sort of people you want in your life? Probably not.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Literally NOBODY is “intimidated” by your height. Everyone, including children, is only concerned that you will spaz out if it’s addressed openly. You don’t even have to have EVER spazzed out in your entire lifetime. The tension you carry due to being a tall woman is plain for everyone to see. Next time you meet a dude under 5’6”, notice how he appears to you. Know that you project the same energy.

Summeroflove · Answer

Look some people feel intimidated especially if they’re not around women who are on the taller side often. But if you’re a good genuine person…. Once people get to know you it shouldn’t be so bad.

ohsheeT · Answer

I think you've confidence changes your aura. Energy changes your aura , like in yourself , changes your aura  Kissing them in slow motion changes your aura

Reapous · Answer

Unfortunately, yeah. As a woman, for a lot of men, being “tall” is a “masculine” trait that they can’t shake off. So to have someone be taller means they’re visually not as masculine and is an ego kick. You shouldn’t concern yourself with these type of men and try your best to find you a guy (or girl) who likes you for you.

For women, as a woman, they seem to be pretty chill lol. Either completely fine/chill to even somewhat envious at times. I think most of your troubles will come from men rather than women.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Just for a woman? Or as a guy? Because I've never been a tall woman. But I am a tall guy, and I can't go a week without at least one person asking me how tall I am. So yeah, being tall is relevant to people who put stock in it.

Personally, I'll never understand the relevance of height. It neither adds nor detracts to person (male or females's) quality.

I've seen men who prefer tall women and men who prefer short women. But I think guys in general consider a woman's height to be largely irrelevant.

Rangers · Answer

I'm 5'9", which is exactly average for adult males in north America. I'll say this: The older I get, the less I'm intimidated by height. "Napoleon syndrome"? Tall people have just as big an ego problem as shorter people, they think they're above other men. But they're very flustered when taller people try to intimidate me.

Look, being taller is an advantage, but I weigh 50-100 pounds more than men a foot taller than me, I practice punch formation every day, and I carry a gun everywhere I go, you really wanna go this route?

Tall people need to humble up, I've picked up men above 7 feet tall and carried them around like a baby, bridal carry style. I've lifted men above 7 feet tall over my head like dumbells, humble up, tall people. Cause long legs are easier to snap

As for "Napoleon syndrome", Napoleon was a badass military commander who brought a whole continent to his knees, tall or not, he got stuff done, don't be a onw trick pony

IndustrialEnthusiast · Answer

Does being tall change your aura? Only if you let it make you insecure.
I'm a tall dude (6'3"). To me, physical stats like height and looks are secondary. What determines your 'aura' is your character.
Do you listen? Do you genuinely care how I'm doing? Do you support your partner? Can you build after a hard time without running away to another man the second things get tough?
You can be a stunning 10 visually, but if you lack patience and loyalty, your 'aura' is ugly.
Own your height. Just try not to bang your head on everything like I do, haha.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Yes it does, For the weak and immature, I am sure you are a threat. But for the mature and experienced you are a treasure. I would have loved to waltz with a woman as tall as I am. Not to mention the thrill of being face to face with you during intimate situations. Not a disadvantage inj my book

Alex_Bright · Answer

I think height has an impact on how people treat you yes. But it's more important how they carry it themselves. If there's a short guy who's trying desperately to look tall, that screams insecurity.
If there's a tall person who's always bending the head or shoulders a bit lower, it's not good either. Just take yourself for who you are and stand up straight, own it. And be happy you're healthy, otherwise you wouldn't think of worrying about this.

Berethor · Answer

Of course being close to a giant is intimidating people, tallness is also a masculine trait.

jshm2 · Answer

Your feelings are wrong. They're just wondering what the weather is like up there... and how you manage to crouch, to use a toilet...

Joking aside, you need to look after yourself better, as being tall also comes with heart problems and mental problems

sawno · Answer

Yes, because being taller than a guy is a trait that a lot of them don't like. Personally I don't mind that although my preference is also someone a little smaller than I am.

WonderingManII · Answer

It's about your personality attitude. Height makes you seem like you got more power. See guys are kinda scared of Women anyways. Because when Women get angry, they say some really nasty words, that hurt men deep down. So guys try not to anger Women.

Hagar88 · Answer

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Abbycado · Answer

No, tangible qualities do not change intangible qualities.

Noredcarpet · Answer

If u got shorter and insecure people around u that project that on u its really their own stinking aura, not yours. Keep your head high and be proud

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Yeah I notice tall girls get approached less. A lot of guys have anxiety over their height when talking to normal height women so if you're tall that seems to cut the amount of potentials

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Personally, have no issues. I've dated as short as 4'3 and as tall as 6'4. Not sure about all that aura nonsense but those legs definitely are a positive memory.

RavVid · Answer

Girls like men being taller and guys like girls being shorter. It is a very embedded preference and would stem men and women liked One million BC. I don't see there is an aura aspect.

exitseven · Answer

My mother was almost 6 feet tall and was a Marine during WW2. She looked pretty impressive in her uniform. If anything her height added to her being.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

What tall height are we talking about? 5.11 foot or 7 foot?

Unycorn · Answer

I heard yes, tall women and little men have problems to find a date. Seems women prefer tall men and men prefer little women.

WhitneySnow · Answer

It just makes you more beautiful. Like a model.

Miristheiss · Answer

I like tall girls. I am tall though. I do not know what short guys feel.

nastyb · Answer

Yes. but not consciously. People tend to be less likely to mess with you if you are tall.

Kabluie · Answer

Dating people the same height as me (6'0) or even taller is fun, no intimidation.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

No, not really.. Especially if you're tall, shy and/or skinny..

AngryCarl2 · Answer

I don't think "aura" has anything to do with your height. Remember, "a noble spirit embiggens the smallest man."

snermcger · Answer

Never dated a tall woman. Not intimidated by them, though. Tall people are like short people, just more of them, I guess.

MysticDevice · Answer

I love tall women.  I would LOVE it if my future wife is as tall as me

Xawyx-2 · Answer

I actually like tall girls, especially if they are dominant.

Staximus · Answer

You're only 2 inches taller than me, and I'm halfway to midget town

_Troian_ · Answer

Sometimes, if you're tall girl then you gonna find tall guys

Daytoday79 · Answer

I have no with tall girls, like as friends, but girls who are taller than a certain guy don't like to go out with them on dates

blackeagle007 · Answer

I can’t see how you being tall is intimidating. If you looked like the hulk, different story

msc545 · Answer

No, about the only thing that changes for sure is the size of your pants.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Im 6'5 and I think it does i think people look at you differently. How tall are you

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

What's tall about a 5'81/2" lad?

Mpodere · Answer

Yes could happen but not to me

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not really. Enjoy who you are

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nope. I lean towards tall.

Shrimpenjoyer · Answer

How tall are you

MasterKS · Answer

Tall girls are super sexy.

Zionne · Answer

yes i thinkk

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