Any autistic dudes struggle with women?

[Summeroflove]

[Rangers]

Early on, they struggle as women gravitate towards outgoing men but as women approach their 30s, they start to shy away from them when they see most of them don't want the connection to become deeper.

So women start turning their attention towards less outgoing men who are far more likely to seek a strong emotional connection than others. And then the shy guys actually start to do kinda well, believe it or not. I suspect this trend to stay for men who are autistic.

Anecdotally, I've known 12 guys with autism in school, and only 1 had a prom date. Now 6 of them have children and their wives are... yeah, whoa, 2005 Christy Hemme has some competition cause even after they gave birth, wow.

Seems like the constant is true, women seek deeper connections as they approach their 30s and when they're not able to leep connections with super extroverted men, they're gonna start looking elsewhere. Most of these autistic men were like me, they didn't have a lot of friends, so there's some void there.

I think that's where the desire for deep connections in these men and myself starts, and where the desire for casual physical connections just never really brews like it does for extroverted men

Anyway, just my rambling theory

[Zack-Bann]

Most neurotypical dudes struggle with women


Pretty sure nearly all autistic men would have some challenge figuring that out


Which is good news because they shouldn’t feel like there’s a secret recipe that everyone gets except them
Truth is none of us know what we’re doing when talking to women


We just take a shot and hope for the best

[fivebyfour]

Perfectly said!!!

[Staximus]

Yeah, the secret recipe is different with every woman

[Kelley1]

I am certain there are many exceptions, but typically, autistic men lack the social awareness that women desire.

[Summeroflove]

And that does depend. Depends on the autistic individual and the woman

[Kelley1]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Anonymous]

I have heard homosexual males are more likely to be autistic than heterosexual males

[HawkPerception]

I struggle with women and I'm not autistic 😂

But there are many reasons that many women deter me nowadays. It's more an issue with the quality of women than it is myself. I'm not trying to be arrogant, but women in the west are generally entitled, narcissistic misandrists, who brag about not needing men and that they're better off without them. They want to be approached and complain that no men approach them nowadays and that chivalry is dead, but when men do approach them, they're called creepy and in some rare cases, even call the cops or authorities on them. They're so desensitized from all the validation they get online from social media and dating apps, it's like they think they're the hottest shit in person and don't desire any attention.

[aaron13547]

Indeed. Except for me its not that I struggle so much with women, most women like me its i struggle with connection in general. Friend zone is safe to me. That more that connection is... i tell myself I dont want because it can hurt as much as it feels good. commitment seems to be my biggest problem even when a women likes me and I like her. I put myself first. I dont know how not to because the way I am. So the surrendering to the other person is what I struggle the most with... I really dont like being looked down upon.

[Sal_Monella]

With Asperger's, it is difficult because your reality is different. You may know everything but. But you are still anti social.

[dragoblack]

Always. I'm almost never seen as relationship-material, always the brother-like friend.

[qwerty2469]

Autistic people are logical and fact based. What woman are completely fantasy based.

[chase_strickland800]

I do as a person with Asperger’s syndrome a form of autism your not alone

[Staximus]

I'm pretty sure all of them do

[Anonymous]

What are you struggling with?

[simply_anomalous]

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