Is it morally wrong for a 21 year old woman to be with a 62 year old man?

[Chasememe]

They just sleep together , she has a thing for older men.

Yes it's wrong

No it's not

Results

[aceleon]

morally to who?

because as far as i'm concerned without having a god who makes things purposefull everything in existance is absolutly meaningless aka no morality or such stuff.

so unless you are religious nothing you do is morally wrong.

creepy looking to lot of people? yes of course

morally wrong? since there is no such thing as right or wrong, no.

even if you believed in the subjective no foundation other than don't harm anyone type of morality it wouldn't be immoral.

just creepy looking to most people.

[Hsrdonme]

Just as creepy as a 21 year old man and a 62 year old woman

[aceleon]

@Hsrdonme likely.
though i see what you are trying to pull there and no, not the ''it is the same for both of us since we are equals and such'' bullshit.
sorry sweety, not interested in any type of shit like that, yes it is creepy for the guy too but not because it is the same for us but because it is a very one way street for a baby out of the curb to fuck with a walking corpse.

[Hsrdonme]

It's creepy because he's a boy and she's an old wrinkly creature.

Girls mature faster and look like women sooner so it's not as creepy to me.

[aceleon]

@Hsrdonme look like woman early? perhaps
mental maturity? hell no, sorry sweety but womans infact don't get mature faster in the mental sense you are as much of a brat at 21 as you were as a 15 year old baby.
also, isn't the old fart you mention not an old wrinkly creature too?
he is.
end of debate, go with your own peers not people old enough to be your grandpa/ma.

[Hsrdonme]

@aceleon scientifically girls mature faster than boys mentally by 2 years. Boys are way more immature.

[Hsrdonme]

@aceleon 15 is like 21? That's so ridiculous to say. Complete joke.

[aceleon]

@Hsrdonme absolutly disagree, outdated biased scientific test that estimates maturity from stupid milestones that has no bearing in actual society is nothing valueable enough to give a damn about.
also let's say what you say is true
than it just means an 62 year old geezer bangs a not 21 but 23 year old girl
wow such big difference smh.

[aceleon]

@Hsrdonme when did i said 15 is 21?

[aceleon]

oh i remember, previous comment.
i was trying to say you are a brat at 21 just as much as you were 15.
not it is the same thing.
it is obviously different, but still an immature brat who doesn't know shit about the world (i'm not attacking you right now take it generally)

[Hsrdonme]

You're 23, yet infantalizing 21 year olds. I think you are projecting.

[aceleon]

@Hsrdonme did i ever said i saw myself as an adult? nope, not happening i will remain as a carefree kid until my beard turns white and my backbone screams at me for a surgery.
adulthood is overrated and boring as fuck, nothing remotely satisfying to offer to me.
i also infantilize people who ar eperhaps 3x time my age too since the amount of years your hearted continued to pump blood into your body doesn't mean jackshit to me and has nothing to do with maturity, i know geezers who should button their jackets infront of some young kids with much more wisdom than them.

[cherrytreeblossom]

morally? depends on what you mean. it's not morally wrong for us to tolerate them, but i think it's morally wrong for the people.
1) get yourself someone your own age, loser.
2) so are you gonna get kids from that? unlikely, to say the least.
3) is the younger one just waiting for the older one to die for easy money? that's utterly immoral of them, but they're adults, so not our problem.
4) is the older one just paying for the younger one to stick around? immoral again, but if they both agree it's none of our business.

still, someone with character would just go to fkn work. kids all over asia work from when they're 5 bc they were born into abject poverty but they eventually make sth of themselves. whenever people complain about indians/chinese/etc taking their jobs, try and find out where they come from. not all of them stem from relatively rich families.

[Hsrdonme]

She said the 21 yo has a kink for much older men so it has nothing to do with money. She simply likes much older men.

[cherrytreeblossom]

@Hsrdonme thanks, couldnt read all the responses. still weird. there's nothing in a 62 year old man that a 52 year man couldnt do better. sth's wrong with her, but still not our problem.

[FreyaRed]

Only normal if he is rich, otherwise I think it's a sick fetish

[Chasememe]

That's shallow

[ohsheeT]

It's only between both of them
Sometimes in life there's a moment in time where to people meet nothing matches up and both Question it but there is something deeper and you both connect for what ever reasons.

And if there us communication about those reasons and both understand they dont know where it will go.

They are both adults and it's there choice

And who is to say for them it's morally wrong when it's not anyone else's business

[sawno]

Not if there is no manipulation going on. Its an unusual dynamic I usually wonder if either party is using the other. But if its truly genuine I don't see anything morally wrong with it.

[Chasememe]

She has a thing for much older men

[sawno]

I take it he also does it for the sex? Perfectly moral then in my morals. Its two people both experiencing something they want, elevating each other up in the process.

[Chasememe]

Yes pls vote

[sawno]

Already did, I voted no.

[Chasememe]

Thanks

[MisterPandemonium]

It's two adults making decision about how they're going to spend their time, and with whom.

As long as they're both on the same page about what their relationship is, and neither of them are lying to the other, no it's not morally wrong.

[LiamS95]

It's not immoral for them to be together but according to the bible they're committing fornication which is a moral sin.

[Chasememe]

You don't know if they are religious

[LiamS95]

Asking if it is morally wrong implies that the asker is.

[FunkyMonkee]

As long as they're both of legal age, it doesn't matter how old each one is.

[David318578]

Nope, both adults and can make up their own minds for how they want to live their lives

[LiamJHayden]

What consenting adults do is not my business.

[Chasememe]

Pls vote

[jahaims]

Yeah, she is mentally ill and the guy is taking advantage of it

[pearljammin]

As someone who would probably do that with Johnny Depp , I don’t think I can comment 🤣

[Chthou95]

You're over 18. I don't care since you're an adult

[DMC93]

Hey sometimes I wish I slept with a 42 year old woman and im 32

[queenofcardio]

No but damn that's a huge age gap

[Nikki1989]

Nope.

[LazerBean]

It is morally wrong if they are not married

[slatyb]

They are both adults.

[jazzy34]

Why is it any of your business?

[Zionne]

well depends on how mature the 21 year old is

[Kelly6]

Totally normal

[onecuriousguy2454]

I think if you love eachother then why not?

[Chasememe]

Pls vote

[beefcakebradybatson]

No, except if you're a gold digger.

[CuriousMufuxka]

As long as he's got that loot.

[OneNisa]

Nope

[wkhan_87]

If you like, who cares

[MasterKS]

Its her choice.