Is it wrong for a 35 year old man to marry and be with a 20-25 year old woman?

[Anonymous]

(Stay out of your feeling, this is an honest question) Please let me know why. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I'm 23 and because I'm a broke college student I can't really compete with some other men for high quality women. But through my life I've seen relationships were the guy is 10 or 15 years older than her and they live happily. If you want me to explain why I don't want a relationship with older women, don't bother, we all know why I do. So would it be wrong to wait until my career is well established and making more than 6 figures to date, and date younger women?

Yes it's wrong

No it's fine.

[coachTanthony]

Most men who grind until they are 35 and make something of themselves will look for someone who is 25ish as a wife. Women want security and maturity and most men in their 20's aren't quite there yet unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

It's not wrong. But it is the high end of the acceptable dating spectrum, Generally and gap larger than 9 years. And the success rate falls off dramatically.