Is it bad id only want to be a mans first and ever love?

[Anonymous]

Is it too unrealistic and is it too late

[sawno]

At your age that is achievable but it is going to be difficult. Most guys aren't mature enough to be able to sustain a relationship but it does happen. Your going to have to find one who is very loyal and serious about this to.

[Asker]

I think its too late tbh

[Zack-Bann]

Not as uncommon as you think


You see men (and women) tend to think they fell in love before


But when they fall in love for real they’ll know that everything that came before was not the real deal

[Asker]

Yet they always keep thinking about the first person they loved

[Zack-Bann]

They feel nostalgic over simpler times
That’s why they reminisce about the first

Not because she was better than everyone that came after her

Don’t worry too much about it

Love is hard enough without overthinking the details

If you find true love don’t waste it just because maybe he had an ex in high school

[Asker]

but if he can't forget her or get over her, ill always be the second woman in his life, knowing he would probably leave me because his first true love came back makes me sick

[Zack-Bann]

First of all: his first love will never come back
They never do. It’s not a movie

And besides, men don’t love in “tiers”
If he loves you it doesn’t matter who comes back
He will not switch you for someone else

Believes in yourself and your partner and all will be well

[Asker]

And what if they run into eachother and all those feelings come back, small world we live in yk🤷‍♀️

Not all men tho, some just settle for next best.

[Staximus]

It's not unrealistic if you find the right guy early in life, it happens all the time. Don't just decide to attach yourself for life to the first guy you fall for, though. Take a couple years to make sure he's not a useless meat sack

[Asker]

easier said than done

[Berethor]

I don't think that it's unrealistic or too late, you can follow me if you want to chat.

[Asker]

I've seen what you say to young girls, not happening.

[jahaims]

Why would that be bad? I have been with my wife for over 10 years and we have only been with each other.

[Asker]

and u think she's never liked somebody before u?

[queenofcardio]

It's possible at your age

[Asker]

is it tho? every guy I've ever spoken to isn't over his ex or is still hung up on his first crush

[Abbycado]

Too late? You’re under 18. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[dougeats]

no but it rarely works

[Asker]

sadly

[In_Trance]

You've come to the right place

[Anonymous]

Not bad at all.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Yes it is.

[Asker]

why?

[CuriousMufuxka]

Live and find out for yourself.

[Asker]

wdym?

[CuriousMufuxka]

What are you 5? Don't make me call CPS

[Asker]

im asking what do you mean by that? are u saying its realistic or unrealistic?

[CuriousMufuxka]

I'm saying that you're a bad troll. Wanna know why?

[Asker]

And how am i a troll?🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

You people on here throw the troll card on literally everybody that asks a question that YOU think doesn't make sense.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Well fuck them, don't group me in! With that said, it's a little funny that your prose and punctuation have leveled up quite recently..

[Asker]

You’re literally one of them. Whats that supposted to mean?