Mostly because many Asian women (Southeast Asian in particular) still have traditional morals and values, which are almost nonexistent in western and western influenced countries (Japan, Korea, China).
The vast majority of men DO NOT WANT FEMINISTS, though most have long given up on any hope that western women would listen or care. And this is the main reason why most men today either see western women as "recreational use only" and are not interested in long-term relationships and everything that goes with it, or they have abandoned women entirely for anything more than a colleague or casual acquaintance.
Many men who want a relationship but refuse to consider western women are going to southeast Asia, the Slavic countries (Russia, Ukraine, etc.), or South American countries, where traditional morals and values are still the standard.
Western women love to look down on these women as naive and easily manipulated, but the truth is that most are college educated, multilingual, and are choosing to date American (and often western) men based on fully informed choices. Yes, many of them are in countries where they have much poorer financial potential, but few of them would leave their families and lives in their country to be with a foreigner just for money. What makes these women attractive is that they haven't had 60 years of indoctrination that men are the enemy, that women are oppressed victims, and that having a family is slavery. Men, shockingly, LIKE to be wanted, needed, and appreciated.
Most western women have no idea just how indoctrinated they are, because anti-male feminism is all they've ever known, and seems completely natural and normal, but most men know the difference and fewer and fewer are choosing to accept that, even if it means being alone forever. That's not what most men want, but men are used to suffering, and we know how to do it.
Feminists are going to go extinct within a couple of generations, though, as they aren't reproducing. Traditional women are raising their own children to maintain their traditional values, and can see Feminism for what it is (a female superiority cult) and reject it completely, though most don't talk about it outside the family. They want their family to continue.
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Anonymous
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4 mo
Because they think they’re more likely to put up with their bullshit, not have any standards for men and basically do all house chores while smiling and have sex with them whenever. Also because they think they’re skinnier than western women. I’ve seen men in my country write about these things on forums. It’s horrific. They write about how they want an Asian woman, and advice other men to get an Asian, because she’s easier to get because she doesn’t have as high standards, aren’t feminists, will cook, clean, fuck, be happy and not nag. They also warn them to not let the woman they bring here become friends with local women or they’ll get ”ruined” by their new friends feministic ideas. They talk about how their kids ”unfortunately’ will look like the woman but it’s a ”price” that will have to be paid. If I was an Asian (this also goes for east europeans, latin americans and to some extent Africans because they talk kind of like this about women from there too but not as common as about Asians) woman I would stay far away from western men who seem set on getting an Asian wife. To show some examples I visited one of the forums and this is some of the things being written, translated to English:
”Asian women spread their legs easier”,
”they’re more into serving the man”,
”I don’t have a mail order bride yet, but it is what I want”,
”a womans worth is only what a man says it is”,
”if you want to live a comfortable life with a woman it’s better to get a foreign woman from a poor coountry, they’ll please you as long as you provide. If they have difficulties integrating into our culture and getting a job it’s even better”,
”I would much rather have a relationship that’s based on her being financially dependant and us having kids together than a relationship based on love feelings”,
”why are you making the big mistake of bringing the women here? If they live here then slowly but surely they’ll become like all other women here. It’s better that you export yourself”,
”they’re small and tight and have small nice feet. At the same time I don’t really see them as human so my empathy goes away and I just wanna f*ck them and choke them”.
”in a healthy relationship a woman adapts to the man to please him”,
”asian women knows what men want and when they like a man they do lots of that. They’re also petite, not fat, and very feminine”.
”you get a submissive woman who doesn’t say no to sex and births you kids”,
”thai women can be strange, I agree, that’s why I have an indonesian woman”,
”They have lower standards and they’re happy to be in the kitchen and take care of the house”,
”asian women will learn about our own womens equality, don’t believe anything differently, haha I noticed that with my Asian wife. They learn quickly”,
”it’s easier to have confidence around dark women than blonde because then you know you have greater genetic breeding value”,
”asian women are pleasant, cooks and takes care of the man”,
”I don’t encourage racial mixlng but it’s hard to deny the pros of a 20 year younger obedient woman who gives you endless sex without talking back”.
There are worse examples. But this is the general tone of it.
i'm seeing a lot of Asian fetishisers in the replies unfortunately. but as a fellow Asian woman, i will give my two cents.
most Asian countries have a history of treating women as commodities, far worse than ever in the u. s.. like the chinese way back when who would bind women's feet so tightly so that they became crippled because having a "useless" wife meant you had enough money to purchase something with no value other than to look at. that kind of misogyny doesn't just go away.
in the east, america is viewed as a very... profligate country for a lack of better vocabulary. that's the best explanation i can come up with. i don't really know why Asian women find white men physically attractive, but i understand the cultural appeal. there is less unrealistic expectations for women.
when i lived in hawaii, i overheard a female japanese tourist explain to a white American man that she was looking for her european prince charming. i know a fair amount of Asian men in Asian countries have a "foreign girl" fantasy. i wonder if Asian women have that as well.
i grew up mostly in the united states, so im culturally more American, and i tend to not be as attracted to white dudes.
seems to me like the white guys in the replies just want a woman with very little expectations. i wish men and women in the dating pool would become less lazy when it comes to effort
Some Western men are complete and utter failures with women in their home country. And they are basically predatory assholes. They have been sold the idea and believe any Asian woman will be rushing to be with a "White Man" (their racism) and that these fantasy Asian women will be totally subservient to and dependent on their new White husband.
It's the only way these men think they can interact with ("keep") a woman. These weaklings are authoritarian by nature and can't function in a normal relationship. They need to be in control constantly or their insecurities will be triggered.
And Asian women can be quite beautiful. These loser men all think they can have a perfect 10 Asian woman simply because they are White and any Asian woman will sell her soul to live in the USA or another Western country.
Some women believe men should be 100% beholden to them, thus forcing plenty of men to seek Cherry Blossoms, i. e., lovely, stereotypically subservient Asian women. Some of us handsome Bradys, i. e., telegenic black men are seeking these ladies, who are much more open to dating black men than previously.
bc most people aren't racist. what does exist are people who went to school and now know how to read simple crime statistics and if they say that a certain group that makes up only 13% of people commit over half the crime in the country, then it's only natural for at least the smart ones to avoid these kinds of people if they know what's good for them. would you walk through dangerous neighbourhoods, if you had the choice just not to? would you hire an ex-con if you could just as well hire someone with a clean vest? would you become friends with druggies if you could instead pick a group of clean people to become friends with?
There are a variety of reasons but if a guy hasn't travelled outside his country and experienced other countries, it's a red flag if he only wants to date other races. I dated women from all over the world but I married a woman from SE Asia because I liked the culture and the food which makes it easier to adapt to the cultural differences.
Because Asian women are open to dating them without an impossible list of requirements.
Asian women treat them better and are more appreciative of things a western men might do for them.
Asian women tend to be in better shape than western women. Not overweight or obese and no tattoos.
Asian women in a relationship or marraige are more likely to be loyal.
Asian women are looking to settle down younger than western women.
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Anonymous
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Well for one a lot of men love Asian women. You could call it a fetish. Two, if she’s actually from Asia, not Americanized, she’s probably more traditional, more feminine. Men love that more than these masculine women. Three we have an abundance of cultures in the US, to which we see a lot of pretty women all the time. I don’t want to offend you I’m not sure if you’re from the states or a different country. The culture is different as well. I don’t k ow if you’ve noticed but look how many men responded to your question. Would you have gotten this many responses from the men if you didn’t post that pic? Probably not.
I can only speak for myself but I just don't believe in letting race dictate who you can and can't be with.
If you connect with someone really well and you both like and are interested each other as people then why should what race they are matter? That's how I look at it.
Asian women tend to be obsessed with white men, and white men like that, also Asian women tend to be short and therefore more feminine, Asian women also tend to be more traditional.
Asians have natural feminane energy. I mean let us just compare our trans women to simplify the difference. Why do our trans look like men in a dress and I might let the Asian trans suck it? I'm just saying, not like I'd really let that dude suck it. But I'm more likely to be tricked by one over the other.
In many Western countries, people choose partners based on personal preference rather than anything else. This makes interracial dating more common overall, not just with Asians.
I think social media makes people believe the grass is always greener somewhere else. But really, the grass is green where you water it. And I’m not saying this in a negative way it just feels like a lot of stereotypes and biases get mixed into that mindset. Also, I want to add when people make videos or posts about this. There are certain comments that stand out.
In the US, most Asian women, especially ones from China are very attracted to White-American men. Why? I do not know, but if you travel to California, you will see so many of them (White men-Asian women)
It may be because of Asian influence of anime on western culture. Also its may also be a fetish for some ore we just honestly find them cute/attractive.
Mind you I’m Chinese and no in china Trans isn’t a public thing and we don’t to that here I was just coming back from hiking when I took that pic Don’t easily say what you don’t know or judge people as you just seem. 😬
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