Dating

Did I mess it up…?

So I’d gone on 3 dates with this older guy…I really liked him but felt like there were things about us that were so different (ex. Faith, speed of intimacy, dating styles) that made me concerned for the future (if it even got to that).

Anyway, I was willing to still keep exploring the option and keep seeing him but he broke things off with me after I was a bit hesitant to set plans (because I was thinking of my concerns). I guess my question is, from an outsiders POV, did my doubts mess things up or were they just irrelevant and he simply wasn’t interested? I struggle with separating self-sabotage from just reality sometimes

Did I mess it up…?
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